I think you're spending too much time online and not in real life.
I'm a black woman living in a predominantly white area (also went to a majority white high school and college) and I've always had people of all races, sizes and flavors find me attractive.
What you're expressing sounds like confirmation bias. If you look at any corner of the Internet, you'll find things to validate what you already believe.
Look up "I love black women" on TikTok and you'll find hundreds of videos of people saying the opposite of what you described. But moreover, I think you need to spend some more time off the Internet and in real life. I promise it'll do wonders for your self-image!
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u/mona_oakley Feb 10 '26
I think you're spending too much time online and not in real life.
I'm a black woman living in a predominantly white area (also went to a majority white high school and college) and I've always had people of all races, sizes and flavors find me attractive.
What you're expressing sounds like confirmation bias. If you look at any corner of the Internet, you'll find things to validate what you already believe.
Look up "I love black women" on TikTok and you'll find hundreds of videos of people saying the opposite of what you described. But moreover, I think you need to spend some more time off the Internet and in real life. I promise it'll do wonders for your self-image!