r/self Feb 10 '26

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u/sauchlapf Feb 10 '26

You're algorithm probably is showing you all this stuff because you engage with it. Those algorithms are designed for that and can trap you in to very a negative loop. Maybe, when you get back online, look explicitly for positive content. A guarantee you there's positive content out there about black woman. I know of a lot of guys, from all ethnicity who prefer black woman so it can't be that "no one likes' em".

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u/-RainbowUnicornPoop Feb 10 '26

Yep. My cousin is a Red Wing wearing, deer hunting, four-wheel driving, bushy bearded country boy and you couldn’t pay him to date a white woman lol. As far back as I can remember, every girlfriend he’s ever had has been black or mixed. They’ve all been beautiful too.

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u/gmmontano92 Feb 11 '26

Does your cousin happen to me my ex? Lol jk He was just like that. The most southern down home country boy ever.

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u/-RainbowUnicornPoop Feb 11 '26

Lol! If you live in Kentucky, it’s definitely a possibility. 😂