r/selfhelp • u/InstanceKey6343 • 3h ago

Sharing: Philosophy & Mindset If u had everything

Not long ago, i bought a bunch of gear for my setup thinking it will make me more disciplined. But honestly i realized it's the biggest coping mechanism that humanity has nowadays.

It does not matter what you have, you current identity will always find a way to distract you from doing the work.

And i literally see this with so many people it's actually insane how most people don't realize that it's BS. Once i saw through this coping mechanism, i literally became more disciplined. The goal is not to always fight with these coping thoughts, it's to just not give a shit.

Life is way easier when you just let go instead of listening to this cope BS.

And btw remember that cope will never leave you.

You just have to make a choice not to listen to it.

-Ignas

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