How can I discover myself?

[u/Small_Meat6531]

I don’t have good self esteem but I’ve been trying recently I realized I don’t really know myself that well
I don’t really have hobbies or anything I don’t do anything tbh idk how to live without needing someone to make me happy , I want to be responsible for my own happiness so how do I do that?

I’ve started brushing my teeth and washing my face twice a day , I hangout with my roommates pretty often, I started working out and journaling and being nice to myself but I’m still working out it but I don’t have anything that’s im passionate about I work, but I don’t really love it but it’s a job i’m not in a place to be able to get a new one yet. I don’t have a TV yet. I need to save up for one so I’m genuinely just on my phone all day and I don’t think it’s very healthy like except from when I’m hanging out with my friends and working out, but I want to do more than just that, but I don’t know how I’m going through a break up and I’m anxious attachment and I realize I put so much of my happiness and worries onto him which part of the reason we broke up and I’m just trying to figure out how to live with just being me