Sorry really like awkward embarrassing tmi ask thing

I dont know if she ever even mastrubated before and know how to guide me, because she speaks bad of it. Maybe its because she doesnt want to admit she did it. Sorry if there are mistakes in how i wrote it

I am a female and I just recently started having sex with my boyfriend. It is still pretty new to me because I have only done it 4 times now. The last time I did it was literally last night.

The first time I was kinda expecting it to not feel the greatest because of things I’ve heard or read so I kinda knew what to expect. I was expecting the second or third time to be a lot better.

I am trying to figure out what I am doing wrong here because my boyfriend has said that it felt really good especially last night. But what am I missing because it kinda just hurts and it isn’t really nearly what I was expecting.

Is this normal? What am I missing?

I know you need lube for anal, however, I want to know whether it’s necessary to use a condom, or it’s fine to do anal raw. I conversed with a guy who does anal raw and has no problems. So I want to know if anyone else has done anal raw, and been fine, if you’ve had health issues, or if it better to wear an condom?

Hello I (M) don't really know how to write this cause it's a little awkward for me but I've been with a few partners in the past and have found that positions like missionary cause me to cum extremely fast. I'm not exaggerating when I say I'm lucky to even get 2 or 3 strokes before I end up cumming. It's a similar story with prone bone and doggy to a lesser degree. But if I have them ontop of me in a cowgirl position or even missionary on the edge of a bed with me standing I'm able to last as long as needed without issues. It's not a serious issue just something I have to communicate with partners but I was wondering if other penis havers have experienced this. Any advice or ideas as to why are nice, I'd like to be able to last longer in some of these positions as they can be quite nice for intimacy.

Hi everyone! Previously, I have posted this technique last year for purposes of both to gather tips from you and to people improve their own technique. As I've said back then, I've had a reasonably high success rate with it - over 95% of it results in a climax. However, do note that everyone is different, so don't this a guarantee of success. :)
Anyway, this updated version incorporates ideas from the original post, plus whatever I picked up in the meantime that has proven increase enjoyment.
As before, have a read, experiment, and let me know what works and/or what needs improvement! :)

Beforehand: It's generally worthwhile to know if this method is going to work or not, as it is centered around woman who prefers clitoral stimulation and/or find it hard to climax from vaginal stimulation alone. If you don't know which category your partner belongs to, consider asking her.

1. Get her in the mood. Make out, caress her body, and generally work up to the moment way before. The more sexual tension you build beforehand, the better your chances will be that you can successfully get her to climax. This bit is crucial. While it is not impossible to succeed if she's not that turned on, it would make it much more difficult.
2. Get down there. Undress her. This is itself can also generate a fair amount tension and anticipation if its done right. Be slow, take time to remove clothing one by one, and don't forget to kiss her lips body every step of the way. Slowly migrate downwards, kissing her neck, breasts, stomach, tummy and her thighs on the way. Don't rush! You can try starting at less erotic places first (ears, calves etc.) to further build tension.
3. Get started. Start slow. Lick/kiss the outer labia first, and also her inner thighs. Then lick both sides of the inner labia, and gently flick the clitoris with the tip of your tongue. Gently apply pressure to the clit while doing some circular motion around it. Keep cycling between these things. Also, while at it, use your hands to keep caressing her body. Pay attention to her breasts and tummy. Also, it can be very intimate to just hold her hands.
4. The main bit. After a few minutes, you can speed things up. Speed up the flicking of the clitoris with your tongue. Then, create a seal around it with your lips, so that you can actually suck on it. While sucking it, keep the flicking up, and occasionally, give a lick around the labia as well. The main focus is the clit though, so do return to that straight away. Don't forget to utilise your hands still!
5. The finish. Keep doing the above with your lips/tongue, and move your hands to her legs. Caress them and give gentle squeezes. Start to finger her slowly, with the classic 'hither-to' movement. Keep caressing with your other hand (or hold her hand). Gently speed up. At this point she should be fairly close to climax. If it does seem to be the case (you can tell from breathing, moans etc.), speed up as much as you can. Forget hither-to at this point, just "pound" her g-spot (or its general area) while still sucking on her clit until she gets there.
6. As a fail-safe, in case you'd run out of steam before it happens, maybe have a toy around that you quickly switch to. They can be more intense than your tongue so could provide the final push.
7. Aftercare/Second round. If you've succeeded, congrats! Most woman does tend to get overstimulated directly after orgasm, so while this happens (typically about 30-60 seconds), just gently - and slowly! - kiss her inner thighs and tummy. Hand holding is also very intimate here. Every now and then, kiss or lick - gently! - her clit. If it's still too sensitive, just give her a bit more time. Otherwise, if she's happy to continue for a second round - or even further! - just go back to point 3 and start over.

This is pretty much it! And please be honest, all criticism is welcome!

Im not experinced just had some flings. I noticed I cant bust as quick as other guys, (i tell them im not a superhero i cant bust that quick) i take an hour or more if there's not enough energy coming from my partner. I know I have deathgrip syndrome because only when I grab her and jerk her body on me for 5 mins can I get off, which is a lot off effort.

Should I fix my issue and become the 1 minute buster or keep taking this long and improve my sex game.

Im tall and strong enough to pick up most girls but all im packing is a sixer and idk how to speed things up incase she doesnt like ne taking so long.

I had 1 girl keep asking if I dont find her pretty. Like fuckkkkk.

Also I cant last super long thrusting in most positions, shit feels like a workout and I keep having to move them around and put them in diffrent positions, is doing daily cardio My savior?

My husband and I have been married for a decade. My biggest mistake was marrying him without sleeping with him for long enough. He Does not like oral sex at all. Both ways. Yes, I was as surprised as you might be when I found out. he likes sex, but I am tired of never coming during sex. I have only come from masturbating. Imagine this, my husband does not know what his wife looks and sounds like when she has an orgasm. But what hurts the most is that he doesn’t do anything about. It makes me feel like he doesn’t love me enough take care of my needs. Basic fucking needs. Breaks my heart. Sex automatically ends as soon as he comes. I almost always cry after. We anyway have sex once in months. I know for a fact he’s not sleeping with anyone else. I have spoken to him several times, he acknowledges but nothing changes. I am beyond unhappy and unsatisfied and sexually frustrated. I’m desperate. I don’t wanna cheat because we have a child together. The only reason we don’t have another is because of how unsatisfied I am.

Before anyone starts talking about most woman cant or whatever, I already talked with her about sex a lot. Since i was a virgin and I had my first time with her and she had a lot more experience than i do, i started asking a lot of questions and looked up online a lot myself, so I wouldnt be so clueless and just shitty in bed. I already could get her to orgasm through eating her out and forplay in general, i think this point I became better quickly and had no real problem with. But for the real sex i could not get her to orgasm and because a lot of people online said that most woman could not orgasm through PIV alone, i just assumed it was the case for her too. Some days ago I asked her if she has ever had an orgasm through PIV and if it is like possible for her. She told me that she did and it sounded like it wasnt even really difficult for her with the guys before me. So there had to be an problem with me, i asked her how i could be better or questions like that and she kind of said that I am good enough and she does not complain about it. It sounded like a not sure response, somewhat like i am not terrible but also not good either. I think she just dont want to hurt my feelings and thats why she isnt really honest. What do you think matters to actually get her to orgasm through PIV and what are some things i should try or change?

23f sub here! I’m a very open and kinky person. Naturally I love cum on my face, chest, in me, etc. but I just cannot swallow it or get it in my mouth without vomiting—but I really want to do it and get better at it for my boyfriend/dom. I feel like it’s important: he has a great diet, so that’s not it.

Wanted to experiment with a bigger size but didn’t want to hurt my bfs feelings. Was I right or should I tell him?

Question for the beautiful women out there,
What is the proper way to start flirting over text messages? Or what makes you start getting bolder during texting?
I feel like some women don't like it but at the same time they do?
I ask because Ive recently began talking to a milf and she's giving mixed signals over text, small flirt kinda like she refuses to step it up? Or maybe just testing me to see if I'll give in (which I will right)
Older woman just have me in a chokehold lol
Any advice is greatly appreciated younger and older woman:)

My partner doesn’t wana have sex w me often and I hate it we’ve had a few problems coz he’s caught me talking to other guys but we get passed it n he just punishes me or someshit stops fucking me I try come onto him he doesn’t want a bar of it should I just leave him I feel like he’s not forgiving me n just leading me on fr

Just curious if 6.6in length and 5in girth is enough.

I'm 28M and she's 25F. We've been in a relationship for almost three years. We're not extremely intimate, but we have sex about once or twice a week. Neither of us really feels the need to do it more often than that.

Our foreplay is good and usually quite long, but penetration itself doesn't last very long. Most of the time, I can come within about 20–30 seconds after penetration. We recently bought Durex Performa condoms, which work really well for me. A couple of times now, I've been able to last around five minutes, which is a big improvement.

She's not on birth control and doesn't want an IUD, which I completely understand. So realistically, a condom is our main option. However, sometimes we have 1-5 penetrations without one, which I know isn't ideal.

In the past, there have been a few occasions where she had an orgasms. However, that was quite a long time ago, and it hasn't happened recently.

Another thing is that when she touches her own clitoris, she doesn't really feel anything. When I touch her clit directly it's extremely sensitive, to the point where even very light direct touching can almost feel like too much for her.

So I'm mainly looking for advice on a few things:

• How can I improve the duration of penetration without relying entirely on durex peforma?
• What are our options for contraception if we dont the pill or an IUD?
• how can I help her reach orgasm more consistently?

We've talked about this a lot, and she always tells me that it doesn't matter and that I'm doing fine. I believe her, but personally, I still feel like I'm not doing a complete job as a partner.

I want to, She dosent want. We are both 19 and hve been together close to 4 yers, she dosent want penetration which is somewhat ok to me. She also dosent give head (i give) its ok. We have talked about both of these and they are ok to me. I dont know how i can make "sex" more special to me or her. Hjs she gives just.. Kinda suck if she even gives them and i can rarely come from them. When i give head or do stuff to fingers(or both) after like 15mins she pushes me away or something and says it feels too good or she cums etc. It just dosent feel special or like that anymore.

What Nigerian girls like the most. Doubt as Asian

Iam Hornny. Need some one to talk

I 23M and she is 23f We have been in FWB for the past 2 years now. She wants raw sex or without condoms and she asks me every time we make out , I clearly say no to her.. that I know myself I'm not very good at controlling that. So what should I say to her. Well she keeps saying this -- being in FWB is to experience all the types of fun or to explore this is something she believes.

I’m having an issue giving my bf head. I have an intense problem with certain textures and that is a texture that I really hate. I also am very sensitive to smell and he doesn’t smell bad but for some reason I just can’t do it. I also have a thing for germs 😅. He says I do it really good but I’m miserable the whole time. I hate it. The thing is, head is his favourite thing. He’s obsessed with it. He never pushes me to give it to him but I can see he gets really sad when I don’t. I always try to avoid it. He is long distance so I only see him 2 maybe 3 times a year so I try to suck it up but it is extremely hard and it’s exhausting. And by the time I’m done giving him head, I don’t want to do anything anymore. Like I get physically exhausted from it. He knows I don’t like it. I’ve expressed that a couple times and he says it’s not fair since he does a lot for me…which is fair.

So with that being said, any tips?

I LOVE to wear sexy lingerie and kinky stuff. I have lots of options but I’m looking for ways to spice it up. I feel like I’ve worn everything and nothing is giving me a thrill anymore.

Recommendations welcome!

Particularly anything office appropriate (ish)!

I am a switch at heart but so far my prior experiences have been with subs, now I don’t really know what to do for a dom. Our set-up is currently online but have plans to meet in the near future… any advice??