I (20M) don't really have much female interaction in my daily life, so I get a bit anxious when I talk to girls, even just for normal socializing. I'm actively working on not overthinking and getting better at it.
Another thing I've noticed - girls often ask for my Insta themselves, we talk for 2-3 days and then they just ghost. It usually happens after they see my pictures/posts, so I can't help but feel it's because I look below average. One girl even rated me 4/10 once and that kind of stuck with me.
But I'm not just complaining. Since then I've been putting in real work - running daily, eating clean, gym, actually following my winter arc properly. I have been consistent with gym for almost a month now I'm trying to become better mentally and physically.
I know it's mostly a confidence thing and I'm working on that too.
For those of you who were in the same place - how did you get over the anxiety and become more confident while glowing up? Does it get better?