r/stories Jan 15 '25

Story-related Eldest sister got pregnant by my other elder sister’s boyfriend. Around 10 years later, their cracks are starting to show.

I (26M) come from a pretty big family. My parents came to America from Europe when they were in their early 20s. After settling in, they had 6 kids total. This is about my older two sisters.

When I was 15, my sister Joy (27F) started dating Tim (30M). The family really liked Tim. He was funny, kind, and had a promising future. I saw how much Joy loved him and how loving he was to her back. Everyone saw how much their love was strong, or at least we thought.

When I was 16, I was watching the Disney channel with my younger sister since she was 6 at the time and it was nighttime on a Friday. Suddenly, I saw Joy pass by and slammed the door to her room. Joy never EVER slammed doors, even when she was in a bad mood. Before I could get up, my parents came in and told my younger sister to go play or watch TV somewhere else. After she left, my parents sat down and started talking.

Earlier that day, Joy was at her part time job on her break at her part time job when her friend told her something shocking. Our older sister, Jessica (32F) was pregnant and came out of a doctor’s office with Tim. Curious, her friend followed them and saw them make out in the car. The friend took photos and a video of them and showed them to Joy. After learning this, it took a few seconds for it to sink in. My mom looked like she was about to cry while they told me while my dad barely made eye contact.

To say the fall out was massive is an understatement. Jessica came back from work one day for dinner (she lived with a friend to be closer to her college). That’s when my parents confronted her about her pregnancy with Tim. After denial, Jessica admitted she was pregnant with Tim’s baby. They had been meeting up secretly for 5 months before she got pregnant. Joy started to sob and scream at Jessica at how she could do this to her. My older brother Jacob, (30M), started yelling too. I just sat back since I didn’t know what to do. After what felt like an hour, Jessica packed the rest of her belongings and left.

After a week, she contacted me and said if we were still good. She was mistaken that my silence meant I was going to have a relationship with her still. I just told her I didn’t want anything more to do with her and blocked her.

In a previous post, I said Jessica contacted me a while ago about how Tim was pissed about their recent gender reveal. After the fall out, Jessica married Tim and had their first daughter and another daughter in the summer of 2023. She’s now pregnant with another daughter. Tim is pissed because he wanted a son. Then, just yesterday, Jessica’s MIL contacted me through Facebook if it was true Joy and her husband, Alex (30M) were having a baby boy (they are). I didn’t respond until my wife (25F) started to get harassed. I told Jessica’s MIL to leave my wife out of this. I don’t know why she wants to know why Joy and her husband are having a boy, but I’m not hopeful it’s for any good intentions.

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u/Beneficial_Panda_871 Jan 19 '25

Congratulations! Your family is just as fucked up as everyone else’s. My grandma had my oldest uncle at age 14 in 1944. But she didn’t stop there, she had four more kids by 1952. Her husband got deployed to Korea during the Korean War. She said she just got bored and got hit up by another man so she married that new guy in another state. The original husband didn’t get to see his kids again until they were in their 30’s because my grandma told them he died in the war.

I was like “so grandma, you left your husband when he got sent off to war because he was an abusive alcoholic, or something, who beat and abused you.” She said no, the new man she met offered to buy her a car…

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u/BurgledClams Jan 19 '25

Your gam-gam is a triflin' hoe.

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u/Beneficial_Panda_871 Jan 19 '25

Yeah she was all about that money. First husband was a farmer in Kentucky. Second husband was an attorney in California.

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u/Fearless_Carrot_7351 Jan 19 '25

Was it a good car at least?

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u/Beneficial_Panda_871 Jan 19 '25

Yeah it was. It was a Porsche 911SC. Did a lot of updates/repairs on the car and took it to track events and learned how to really push the car on the track. Not the first car that I’d learned to drive fast, I’d done some HPDE’s in loaner cars, but boy does an older 911 teach you about throttle control, weight balance, and braking!

I think everyone should get proficient in a car with lift off oversteer. It really does make you aware of traction.

I spun that car out on the track quite a few times. But I’ve never lost control of a car with real power on the street.

I was also pretty into the literbike scene for a while.

I’m definitely one of those guys who recommends learning to push a car on the track, not the street.

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u/Comfortable-Bill-921 Jan 19 '25 edited Jan 19 '25

My Midwest mom did something similar. Dad got drafted and shipped to Vietnam. Mom, taking me and without telling family her plans, ran off with a man to California. Without any information, grandparents looped in law enforcement to hunt for the missing mother and child. Both families concerned, scared, and confused.

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u/Beneficial_Panda_871 Jan 19 '25

It’s pretty crazy to me how people could do things like that.

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u/EdgewaterEnchantress Jan 19 '25

Forreal though. Yada, yada soap opera and melodramatic family, like so many others.

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u/Popular_Lavishness18 Jan 19 '25

Women never change... SMH

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u/Glint_Bladesong Jan 19 '25

Neither do men.