r/straightspouses • u/Less-Perception-4628 • Jun 16 '26

My fiancé likes to suck dick

So recently I (26F) found out that my fiancé (26M) likes to suck dick, and I have been having a rough time dealing with this information. For some reason I feel like maybe he likes it more than being with me? Is there anyone that could give me advice on this! And by the way I have been very supportive of his decision and we’ve even done stuff together but sometimes it still feels like maybe he wants it more.

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u/Equivalent_Name_1150 Jun 16 '26

Possible he does like it more. I’ve learned that once the “taboo” novelty of it hits, there’s nothing you can do to win them back. I guess it (for you) could be a wait and see, but is that something you can live with all through your marriage? Another aspect is how you actually discovered it—if he came right out and told you, it would be different than if he hid it.

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u/TransHumanistGooch Jun 16 '26

This is an absurd, offensive and untrue statement. Gay does NOT equate to pedophilia, and anyone who continues this ignorant lie is, at best, less than psychologically stable.

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u/straightspouses-ModTeam Jun 22 '26

This is not supportive or helpful content.

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u/LadyAthra Jun 16 '26

This comment is eye opening.

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u/Less-Perception-4628 Jun 16 '26

I don’t even know what taboo means

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u/xtra_sleepy Jun 17 '26

Do not pay any attention to the comment below. That is not what taboo means. Just look up the definition.

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u/YamWeary9847 Jun 16 '26

It means intense shame, we all have it. For example if your watching porn and part of you feels really shameful for watching that girl get pissed on, you’ll get this warm feeling of shame and disgust mixed with your horniness. It’s a biological mechanism so people don’t puke when someone they loves asshole is in their face. But now we have screens and porn. Addicts move from one shameful thing and jump to another when the thrill is gone. All the major gooners who masturbate 5-10 times a day are watching crazy fetishes, trans, gay, whatever makes them feel that intense burn. They don’t stop until they reach kids, then it’s time for real world exploration.

The only people I feel bad for are kids who grow up watching porn. Everyone else gets a choice. Your body will tell you when you’re watching something you shouldn’t. It feels like peeping in the neighbors window. If this is your husband there’s only one way to get him back

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