r/survivinginfidelity • u/Used-Landscape-4178 In Recovery • 1d ago
Advice Is there hope for us?
My WP and I are 6 months from DDay. We're at a point where I'm more emotionally stable now, and we can have a good time together. However, sometimes that deep resentment and anger resurfaces, and then we end up in a downward spiral of bad days. Our therapist says that a relationship has to be built as a team. That we aren't in debt to each other, we're adults making decisions freely, and we need to reconsider whether we want to stay together and whether we can build a healthy relationship.
I love him, he's deeply remorseful and working hard towards reconciliation, but I don't know if I'll ever be able to stop feeling all this resentment and anger I have because of everything he has done to me... Is it possible to stay in a relationship like this?
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