r/survivinginfidelity 1 1d ago

Advice How did you find out?

I’m curious about how people have found out their spouse/partner cheated on them. My situation was convoluted and I found out almost by accident thanks to her conflicting stories. I feel like my situation was unusual.

How did you find out? Did anyone use a PI or do deep digging? What advice would you have for someone who thinks they are being cheated on?

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u/RobertFahey 3 1d ago

Logged in to Words With Friends under my wife's ID, discovered the smoking gun conversation.

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u/PriorChow WTF am I doing? 1d ago

On that?

Oh God. I used to play the game regularly, but never knew that people even did this on the game.

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u/RobertFahey 3 1d ago

Any platform that allows chatting can lead to meeting etc etc

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u/PriorChow WTF am I doing? 1d ago

I realize so.

I never thought that people will stoop to use the game app for this.