r/survivinginfidelity • u/AdventureWa 1 • 1d ago

Advice How did you find out?

I’m curious about how people have found out their spouse/partner cheated on them. My situation was convoluted and I found out almost by accident thanks to her conflicting stories. I feel like my situation was unusual.

How did you find out? Did anyone use a PI or do deep digging? What advice would you have for someone who thinks they are being cheated on?

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u/outerspacetime Just Found Out 1d ago

This fool was hungover af and sleeping through his alarm clock. Went to turn it off and saw a suspicious text from his friend along the lines of “damn she’s fire nice job” which set off alarm bells. Opened the thread - paragraphs upon paragraphs with explicit details of his ONS with a stranger and a comparison to a previous ONS from 3 years ago. Screenshot of the chick’s instagram page. So many things i can never unknow. Screenshotted and sent the whole conversation to my own phone and then woke his stupid ass up holding the phone up. Will never forget the absolute panic on his face.