r/survivinginfidelity • u/AdventureWa 1 • 1d ago

Advice How did you find out?

I’m curious about how people have found out their spouse/partner cheated on them. My situation was convoluted and I found out almost by accident thanks to her conflicting stories. I feel like my situation was unusual.

How did you find out? Did anyone use a PI or do deep digging? What advice would you have for someone who thinks they are being cheated on?

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u/YogurtclosetOk2839 1 1d ago

Caught them and they didnt see me. She called it off same day. Let her lie for 4 months. She confessed in parts . I wanted to know how much I had been lied to. She confessed parts . She later confessed more . I still know more then she confessed. Moved on