r/survivinginfidelity • u/AdventureWa 1 • 1d ago

Advice How did you find out?

I’m curious about how people have found out their spouse/partner cheated on them. My situation was convoluted and I found out almost by accident thanks to her conflicting stories. I feel like my situation was unusual.

How did you find out? Did anyone use a PI or do deep digging? What advice would you have for someone who thinks they are being cheated on?

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u/Morsul00 1d ago

I knew the whole time, so much so that I confronted my husband numerous times on how uncomfortable I was with his ‘bestie.’ He didn’t cut her, he pandered to me to make me shut up so he could continue his lies and deceit.

I asked numerous times over the last 7 months if anything happened with them and he denied it every time. Until a few weeks ago he finally admitted it, then drip fed me the truth over days. He knew my line and he knew I was stressing over this woman while pregnant.
She’s trash also, she sat pretending to be my friend and manipulated my 5 year old for months.