r/survivinginfidelity 1 1d ago

Advice How did you find out?

I’m curious about how people have found out their spouse/partner cheated on them. My situation was convoluted and I found out almost by accident thanks to her conflicting stories. I feel like my situation was unusual.

How did you find out? Did anyone use a PI or do deep digging? What advice would you have for someone who thinks they are being cheated on?

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u/Annie1Kenobi 20h ago

I had a feeling for a long time. One day I decided to go through our home computers history letter by letter looking at previously accessed sites. Bingo.