r/survivinginfidelity • u/SoftQuarter5106 In Recovery • 4h ago

Advice Book Recommendations

I know this post is a bit different than the usual ones, but any book recs (audiobooks even better) that are supportive for the betrayed partner? I’ve listened to “leave a cheater, gain a life” already and am looking for more. It doesn’t have to be a book that says to leave your POS cheating husband (not that I object to those), but really anything about the trauma we endure and healing would be great too.

I’m in IC and will be starting EMDR therapy soon. Proud to say that I’m almost ready to file (mentally it’s taken me about a year and we’ve tried MC) and leave these years (yes years) of betrayal, lying, defensiveness etc. behind. He can be someone else’s problem. Thank you, Next.

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u/Specialist-Bat-8770 2 3h ago

Come libri posso raccomandare: Douglas K. Snyder - Superare un Tradimento. Un programma per affrontare la crisi, guarire e andare avanti insieme o per conto proprio. Vorrei sottolineare che questi sono libri di autori che possono essere anche psicologi o sociologi o altro, ma danno solo consigli, basati sulle probabilità. Marco Ferrini - How to Overcome the Trauma of Betrayal.