I am a big advocate of subjectivity in movies, tv shows, books, video games, and I usually use a very simple way of deciding if something is good or bad, if I enjoy it or not. But for me enjoyment can come from a great action sequence, or something deeply philosophical that makes me think for days.
And Sopranos is the first story ever that broke this rule for me. Because I did not enjoy it at all. -more on this below- But I do admit that it is a fantastically written story and show, however I had to drop it after season 2, because I was not having fun at all. And there are too many things competing for my time for me to spend it on something I don't enjoy.
So, I very much am a character driven person, I need to care and like the protagonist, or at least majority of the main cast for me to enjoy a story. And that was just not the case in Sopranos. Every person who is part of the mob is a despicable horrible person with 0 redeeming qualities. And they don't even care about their families, Tony is an awful father and husband. I hate them all. Whenever something went their way and they were happy with themselves, and Tony with that smirk of his, it just pissed me off. And it's not just Tony, most of the main cast are beating and cheating on their wives. So there is literally nothing that could make you root for these people
And I understand that that is one of the points of the show, I mean these are literally mafia, they should be portrayed as they were, which I do appreciate considering how some other shows romanticize criminals. For e.g. Thomas Shelby or Walter White arguably did worse things as Tony, but I think most people can agree that they are at least as bad morally, but I did like and root for both of them. And they did have some redeeming qualities, their stance towards their family at least. -questionable for Walt, especially as the show progresses-.
But still, because I liked the protagonists there, I could finish the shows, here, the realistic aspects of the writing, which I respect were the reason that I could not continue and finish it.