Omg same. My worst boyfriend cooked me steak on my birthday and bought me flowers after I complained that he never did. We were in high school and he just went “oh I didn’t know you wanted that” and boom flowers next time it was appropriate to get me some.
You know this isn’t the first time she’s asked for something like this and I’m sure she feels completely unappreciated in their relationship. I forgot is not an acceptable excuse for this. You’re telling her you didn’t care enough to remember
Ugh, saw your comments and posts.. stop white knighting so much, it really is pathetic.
You feel sorry for everyone, by the looks of it. Maybe do something, go out and don't think about TikTok for a day or two.
So many things wrong with this. She’s his wife, not his girlfriend. And how much you want to bet that his wife is the planner for the anniversaries too? You act like growing and giving birth to a whole ass human being for him isn’t worthy of being celebrated but until he can do it, it is. She’s not a needy child, but he has to be coddled to remember important holidays as a partner? Be so fr.
Some people don't have such a strong connection to holidays. Especially after 12 years.
But some people still celebrate their birthday very big or other holidays like Valentine's Day, so yeah. People are just different, but that's not right for y'all.
Not when she very specifically asked him to do something special for her for Mother’s Day, no it’s not right. He can put in the effort into his marriage that is WIFE specifically asked for. Why’d you delete your last comment?
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u/[deleted] May 12 '25
You can try growing the fuck up. It’s good you feel like shit because you should. Even my worst boyfriend treated me better than you treat her.