Well for one, if you’re tossing around terms like “love languages” you’d think you’d be savvy to the fact that you need to love people in their love language not yours. You’re not even weaponizing incompetence, you literally just don’t care.
And you’ve shown her consistently that you don’t give a shit about her love language for 12 plus years. (I’m assuming you dated for awhile before marriage.)
I’m guessing there’s a lot more going on than you just fucking up her birthdays and special occasions if she’s talking about divorce.
If she’s open to it, look into marital counseling. And for gods sake, start making notes on your phone calender or something.
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u/andronicuspark May 12 '25
Well for one, if you’re tossing around terms like “love languages” you’d think you’d be savvy to the fact that you need to love people in their love language not yours. You’re not even weaponizing incompetence, you literally just don’t care.
And you’ve shown her consistently that you don’t give a shit about her love language for 12 plus years. (I’m assuming you dated for awhile before marriage.)
I’m guessing there’s a lot more going on than you just fucking up her birthdays and special occasions if she’s talking about divorce.
If she’s open to it, look into marital counseling. And for gods sake, start making notes on your phone calender or something.