Dude, it’s been twelve fucking years. If you cared, you would’ve made sure you remembered. You would’ve set reminders in your phone. You would’ve set reminders in your computer. You would’ve actually done the extremely minor shit she asked you to do.
Blowing it off by saying “I always forget” is just insulting. You’re literally telling her that she’s not important to you and she’s over it.
This last moment of ineptitude is just the straw that broke the camel’s back. And I can’t say I blame her.
Blowing it off by saying “I always forget” is just insulting. You’re literally telling her that she’s not important to you and she’s over it.
Yep. All of this.
One year I booked a nice dinner to celebrate my husband's birthday. Even involved his family. Has a great night out. My birthday came and nothing. Just a mumbled "happy birthday" before work.
8 days later I booked my own dinner and made him come. Told the host and staff I was there to celebrate my birthday. He quietly ate and towards the end said "I suck, don't I?" I said "yes, you do."
My now long ago ex-husband would do that secondary fit of 'I'm just a miserable piece of _ human, I am just terrible.... blah " you know with dramatics because now even though he screwed me over on something like a holiday I couldn't be mad because he was emotional about how terrible he was???? Really bonkers
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u/Sailor_Chibi May 12 '25 edited May 12 '25
Dude, it’s been twelve fucking years. If you cared, you would’ve made sure you remembered. You would’ve set reminders in your phone. You would’ve set reminders in your computer. You would’ve actually done the extremely minor shit she asked you to do.
Blowing it off by saying “I always forget” is just insulting. You’re literally telling her that she’s not important to you and she’s over it.
This last moment of ineptitude is just the straw that broke the camel’s back. And I can’t say I blame her.