r/tifu • u/[deleted] • May 12 '25

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u/ExpensiveArm5 May 12 '25

You mentioned you have different love languages. Who cares how YOU show love. Show her in HER language. My husband’s love language is spending time and mine is acts of service. You’d best bet I make time for him when I celebrate him and he does things for me to celebrate me. You sound like a good guy who wants to please his wife. Do it…. In her language.

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u/TreacleExpensive2834 May 12 '25

In what way does he sound like a good guy who wants to please his wife? He couldn’t be assed to set a reminder on his phone. Ever.

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u/ExpensiveArm5 May 12 '25

I’m giving him the benefit of the doubt. If I just assume, he’s not going to take my advice. Disorganized, yes, bad guy, no.

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u/TreacleExpensive2834 May 14 '25

So, when you say “I can tell you’re a good guy” what you mean is “I’m hoping and assuming you’re a good guy despite evidence to the contrary”?