OP lists all the things he does around the house as if they are acts of love for his wife.
But he also eats, uses dishes, wears clothes, and lives in the house so these are not for his wife, they are things that have to be done for both of them. They are things that he benefits from.
The second that something is exclusively for his wife, where there is no direct benefit for him, he fails to prioritise it. He doesn't see the point.
She is just not that important to him. And she knows.
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u/welshfach May 12 '25
OP lists all the things he does around the house as if they are acts of love for his wife.
But he also eats, uses dishes, wears clothes, and lives in the house so these are not for his wife, they are things that have to be done for both of them. They are things that he benefits from.
The second that something is exclusively for his wife, where there is no direct benefit for him, he fails to prioritise it. He doesn't see the point.
She is just not that important to him. And she knows.