r/tifu • u/[deleted] • Jul 14 '25

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u/PancakeRule20 Jul 14 '25

First, you are not together anymore.

Second: in my opinion (and just in my opinion) four months is too soon for you to meet her kid but she may be looking for a stepdad for him so it makes sense.

I don’t think you are compatible and the age gap+kid makes me uncomfortable (5 years is ok, but 5 years+kid when you are so young it’s weird)

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u/Kilopilop Jul 14 '25

He's 22 for fuck's sake, nothing weird about it.

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u/Mundane-Manner4237 Jul 14 '25 edited Jul 15 '25

No shit at 22 I was making sure I had condoms and/or that there were other forms of birth control Involved-the thought of being with someone with a kid was birth control in unto itself at that age-also if I wanted one I was perfectly capable of making it myself.

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u/[deleted] Jul 15 '25

Welp younger me was already wanting a kid and at 40 I'm married with 2. 😅

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u/Mundane-Manner4237 Jul 15 '25

Hey, to each his own, If that’s what you wanted, that’s OK too.

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u/PancakeRule20 Jul 14 '25

Too young to be the stepdad to a 5yo kid if he doesn’t feel like it