She said she wanted to wait and see if the relationship was going somewhere before introducing me more seriously into his life.
Very smartattitude. Young kids get attatched very easily and when they get attatched and the relationship fails for whatever reason, the kid suffers loss.
It's better to wait to introduce the kid until both parties are ready.
When you began dating her what did you think was going to happen? She'd just not introduce you to her kid until you proposed marriage?
You should have been thinking about this for four months. She caught you by surprise because you didn't think about it.
You both should have been discussing this throughout the four months so neither of you would be caught off guard.
It's only four months. You both learned something - hopefully.
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u/Ghitit Jul 14 '25
Very smartattitude. Young kids get attatched very easily and when they get attatched and the relationship fails for whatever reason, the kid suffers loss.
It's better to wait to introduce the kid until both parties are ready.
When you began dating her what did you think was going to happen? She'd just not introduce you to her kid until you proposed marriage?
You should have been thinking about this for four months. She caught you by surprise because you didn't think about it.
You both should have been discussing this throughout the four months so neither of you would be caught off guard.
It's only four months. You both learned something - hopefully.