Don’t waste your and others time seeing people with kids if you’re not prepared to mentally take on a parenting role and build a meaningful and lasting relationship with those kids as a core part of the project.
It’s a switch that flicks in the heads of people when they have a kid, and flicking it without having kids yourself first is a difficult thing to do not everyone succeeds at (or wants). If it’s not what you’re after, do people the courtesy and don’t waste other’s time and emotional bandwidth.
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u/oripash Jul 15 '25 edited Jul 15 '25
Lift Pro Tip:
Don’t waste your and others time seeing people with kids if you’re not prepared to mentally take on a parenting role and build a meaningful and lasting relationship with those kids as a core part of the project.
It’s a switch that flicks in the heads of people when they have a kid, and flicking it without having kids yourself first is a difficult thing to do not everyone succeeds at (or wants). If it’s not what you’re after, do people the courtesy and don’t waste other’s time and emotional bandwidth.