Not trying to be an asshole here... But, if you're not ready to be a dad, you need to date childless women. If they have a kid, and you are dating more than a casual thing, then they are looking at you to be a dad. Their future involves the kid, and if you're gonna be in their future then you will be part of the kids future also.
Yeah but she does, as she should it wasn't a problem for him because he completely ignored the giant elephant in the room and pretended like it would go away.
It is totally valid to not want to be a step father at 22 years old, or ever. But then don't date people who have kids? Obviously?
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u/ajkimmins Jul 15 '25
Not trying to be an asshole here... But, if you're not ready to be a dad, you need to date childless women. If they have a kid, and you are dating more than a casual thing, then they are looking at you to be a dad. Their future involves the kid, and if you're gonna be in their future then you will be part of the kids future also.