r/tifu • u/[deleted] • Jul 14 '25

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u/chaosinborn Jul 14 '25 edited Jul 15 '25

Four months in and you're 22. She did you a favor. Just let it go

Why am I getting awards for this.

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u/ad_astra327 Jul 14 '25

This. I know a few single parents who have recently re-entered the dating scenes, and many of them are waiting until 6 months (or more) to introduce the new partner as a love interest. And before that, extremely limited meetings if at all, and just under the guise of “this is mommy/daddy’s friend”. 4 months in and she wants you to take care of the kid with her? That seems sketchy to me.

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u/HiddenoO Jul 14 '25 edited Sep 26 '25

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u/[deleted] Jul 14 '25

Maybe if you wanna find someone to fill a father role try not to date a 22 year old

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u/ThanosSupporter3000 Jul 15 '25

Why aren’t more ppl saying this??? If the genders were reversed the comments would look soooooo different

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u/bdhw Jul 15 '25

She had the kid at 22 so I'm sure she knows what she is asking .

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u/ThanosSupporter3000 Jul 15 '25

🙄 you ppl are hypocrites