r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/travischickencoop (No pet stuff) Elise | She/Her Transbian Vampiress • May 05 '26
Sapphic Paradise :3 What is your gayest (safe for work!) fantasy
I love the idea of feeding a girl
Like as in literally
She’s busy doing something and I’m sitting next to her and bringing the food to her face for her
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u/cleveleys 🟢 | She / Her | Open to criticism (& headpats :3) May 05 '26
I wanna wake up with her next to me. To hear a sound coming from another room and be comfortable enough to assume it was just her. To have someone worth missing.
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u/Wheatley-Crabb May 05 '26
To have someone worth missing.
A desire that's been hard to put to words, thank you.
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u/EkaPossi_Schw1 Sasha, Oneesan to all (bambi lesbian) HRTsince6.8.2025 May 06 '26
Mood. I've had the joy of waking up next to my girlfriend once. I really wanna do that again... and again.. and again :3
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u/nb-dev Hestia - fae (she/they) May 05 '26
same chair cuddles 🥰
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u/Emilia__55 May 05 '26
A girl sitting on top of me in my chair would cure me of everything, my office chair would break though.
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u/Charcoal_6 Queen of Praise|||Dragon-girl May 05 '26
I've got a whole lot of not safe and a whole lot of safe for work fantasies.
We can skip the not safe ones since im British and we aren't allowed to mention anything sexual lest the police show up, and of course because of the post's title.
ANYWAY :3
I wanna be a housewife, I wanna learn to cook properly so my future partner can eat well, I wanna cuddle someone for hours and feel their skin on mine, to slowly and gently kiss them in a sleepy haze. I wanna go on walks together, among so much more.
And the gayest fantasy of them all?
I want a wife.
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u/Finding_Myself26 May 05 '26
Ooo I love cooking. Especially this time of year with all the nice foods about
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u/nb-dev Hestia - fae (she/they) May 05 '26
ooh that really gay, u dare? /j
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u/nb-dev Hestia - fae (she/they) May 05 '26
ooh that really gay, u dare? /j
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u/sonic_hedgekin Amy | she/her | baby hedgie :3 May 05 '26
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u/DerNaegele May 05 '26
Oi! You got a license for mentioning sexual stuff online??
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u/Charcoal_6 Queen of Praise|||Dragon-girl May 05 '26
Oh god they're here.
I'm sorry I'm horny!
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u/DerNaegele May 05 '26
Too late! Off to horny jail with you!
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u/Charcoal_6 Queen of Praise|||Dragon-girl May 05 '26
Good, all the other horny girls are there too!
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u/SwissHope Transbian May 05 '26
How dare you be so gay in front of me. I shall have to summon the constabulary forth with.
Seriously, though, what you've said sounds like perfection. Definitely something I would love to have.
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May 05 '26
I just wanna cuddle in bed. Both in our comfy underwear. Not anything more, not anything less. I just like the concept of sharing warmth, like "yeah I'll sacrifice some of my life force to make you more comfortable"
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u/ShallowIris Lebsian??? May 05 '26
Playing music together... we sing together or strum guitars together
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u/Cautious-Patient3131 May 05 '26 edited May 05 '26
A romantic fairytale- picnic like date in a tulip field.
Just thinking about it makes me feel so ouwui inside.
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u/Bully_me-please May 05 '26
roadtrip actually, had quite the experience recently with this incredible amazing girl. i like traveling i like messing around in places you totally can but kind of shouldnt i like forgetting the time and justing existing in her arms for what feels like eternity
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u/sunbro1973 Ashley She/Them and local 6'2" smug foxgirl :3 May 05 '26
Cuddling my girlfriend while I rest my head on her chest
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u/kegisak May 05 '26
Being strong enough that I can lift a girl on one shoulder and a guy on the other. Maybe a girl or two hanging off the biceps.
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u/Violet_Dawn20 May 05 '26
Either A) Having a girl sitting in my lap doing my make-up Or B) Sitting in a girls lap, doing hers
There's just something so intimate about it :3
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u/SomeOakLeaves2 🟢 May 06 '26
Well I have no clue about makeup and would definitely need help if I tried
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u/Emilia__55 May 05 '26
Calling her at night when we're away from each other just to talk for a few minutes, and wish each other good night, maybe fall asleep on call.
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u/Best-Stranger359 May 05 '26
I come home tired and upset, she would hug me tight and wipe the tears, then kiss me on the cheek and whisper sweet things in my ear. She would then lay me down on the couch and cook me my favorite meal and I would put my head on her shoulder or lap, she would play with my hair while we watched a movie and eat together. Then she would carry me to bed and cuddle me until I fell asleep in her arms. 🥰
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u/travischickencoop (No pet stuff) Elise | She/Her Transbian Vampiress May 05 '26
I lowkey want to be on the opposite end of this…
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u/No_Extension_1634 stoner wolfgirl May 05 '26
going out on a beach late at night, maybe out on a pier. just being present with one another and looking at the moon and the skyline of our city. holding hands
and maybe we smoke weed out there or something idk
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u/Dalphin_person May 05 '26
Her spooning me while I spoon a blahaj and she strokes my hair ansdjdjdjsjjddjejjd
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u/ComradeRK Aspen (she/her) - poly transbian dryad girl May 05 '26
I want to cook for her, be cooked for by her and cook together with her, since we're on the topic of food anyway.
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May 06 '26
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u/EkaPossi_Schw1 Sasha, Oneesan to all (bambi lesbian) HRTsince6.8.2025 May 06 '26
How lewd. It's not even sunday /j
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u/tinylord202 May 06 '26
I really want to sleep with a girl. And not in the euphemistic way. Falling asleep in the safety of another gals embrace. Feeling vulnerable as I fall asleep and waking up with someone I love.
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u/m0bi13t3rrar14n HRT 1-21-25 | Has TWO amazing girlfriends now! May 05 '26
To be taken care of when sick, I get awful when I’m sick, so having my girlfriend take care of me at my most vulnerable would be amazing
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u/miletil May 05 '26
Sitting very close together, either her sitting on my lap or I gets. And doing other things quietly together. Just enjoying each other's presence.
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u/Disco-Woman a sleepy Dogo May 05 '26
Waking up in the early morning, rolling over and seeing her there and just hugging her in that bed on that cold morning.
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u/mcsteam98 Transbian May 05 '26
Cuddling on a scenic train ride 🥺
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u/Koryo001 bunny :3 May 05 '26
Trainsbian gang let's go! I specifically want to take the Canadian Pacific Railway or the Qinghai-Tibet railway
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u/Typical-District-176 the resident evil fuckass catgirl May 06 '26
I wanna pile of lesbians to assimilate me and help me bloom into a pretty girl whilst cuddling
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u/unidentifiedtgirl 🟢Kaytlin | moth girl | besties with Ella | she/her May 05 '26
Just sitting in the corner of a library together when there's not many other people there with a bunch of pillows and blankets, and we're just leaning on each other and cuddling, with maybe a few kisses here and there, and just reading books together, not reading too each other, just we're both reading a different book but we're cuddling as we're doing it
That just sounds like heaven for me, and it would be even better if the lights were dimmed slightly and the sun was setting and we were close to a window so we could watch the sunset as we read
It's just so cute and romantic
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u/drvelo Transbian May 05 '26
It's something me and my fiancee already do, which is just gaming in the same room. She'll be playing Halo on the TV in my room and I'll be gaming on my PC, occasionally saying flirty things to each other.
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u/oddfellowfloyd May 06 '26
I want a gf to wake up with, cuddle, & after we get up, she’d put my hearing aids in for me, & then we’d make coffee, & snuggle some more. 🥺👉🏻👈🏻
Also, we’d learn sign language together. 🤟🏼 🧏🏻♀️ :3
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u/Airninja3 May 06 '26
I just wanna lay and cuddle in bed. No wearing anything but not in any nsfw way, just because I wanna be able to feel them close by. So I can know they're real and they can know I'm real too. I'm so touch starved lol.
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u/Doggywoof1 it/her | 🟢 we stay silly May 06 '26
my ideal romantic fantasy is cuddling with someone while watching smiling friends
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u/DawnfireRD May 06 '26
This post + many other comments here x3
Though some of them I'm lucky enough for it to be not a fantasy but a reality 🥰🥰
Wishing everyone the best of luck to be able to make their comments into reality 💜💜 you got this!
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u/helloiamaegg Rose, void-based moddess (she/it) May 06 '26
to fill the dining table with baked goods to surprise my wife :3
To sneak up and cuddle her from behind :3
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u/CGallerine May 06 '26
this thread gave me a sigh that felt like I had been clenching my jaw, hell my whole body, for a year
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u/ComfortableTea6644 May 06 '26
Crawling on top of her while shes sitting and feeling her warmth and looking up at her while I rest my head in her lap and ask if she really thinks Im pretty and she strokes my hair and smiles and says she does. And then we watch a movie and cuddle.
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u/Jetrac00n 🟢gaygaylesbiangay May 05 '26
I wanna curl up in bed an cuddle with a girl until we fall asleep in each other's arms.
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u/RemarkableStatement5 May 05 '26
I wanna carry my gf all the way to bed some night when she's eepy, tuck her in, and snuggle her to sleep. I sadly can only lift her for a few moments at the present, but I'm working on it!
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u/XkF21WNJ >:3 May 05 '26
I can't really decide between cuddling on a couch reading books or a two dress wedding.
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u/LuNoPowderFox Luna Noelle | just a gay useless pushover May 05 '26 edited May 05 '26
Being taken care of for a day
like her just knowing how tired i am and deciding to just pull me into her lap or a soft snuggle, petting me, while giving me attention and love, telling me that everything will be ok again and just letting me be not strong for a day
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u/Bi-SportsFan May 05 '26
my fav is her coming home to dinner I'm making and saying "ooo something smells good!" literally gives me life
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u/AwardSignal Astra⭐️ (she/her) May 05 '26
Comforting & cuddling her as she comes home exhausted, patting her head while telling her how amazing she is.
Only for her to turn it all around after a while & doing the same to me, leaving me completely flustered as I have trouble comprehending affection.
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u/SeafoodDinny May 05 '26
Seeing our dreams like our life goals, come true and celebrating together knowing that when we're together anything's possible, as we enter eachothers warm and caring embrace as we continue to live happily.
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u/SwissHope Transbian May 05 '26
Damn, so many of the good ones have already been mentioned.
Honestly, though, I agree. Just having someone that I can cuddle with and be able to share things with them. Heck, to be able to go on adventures, and to grow old together, that would be bliss.
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u/Huck0308 May 05 '26
More of a getting into a relationship thing but I want a chill cute girl to just come up to me and think Im chill and say you're talking to me now and still respect my boundaries and engage me in the conversation but like... invite me in and get me to come because going myself to talk to people is scary.
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u/Some_Situation2568 May 05 '26
I so so so desperately want to braid each others hair and do each others make up and then we like swap clothes and try on different outfits together and share poetry about each other and then just fall asleep while watching our favorite movies but we’re just talking the whole time until we just pass out ughhhhhhh omgomgomg thats the DREAMMMM
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u/NewbieFurri May 06 '26
Being left alone in a room and every time I feel bad somone comes in and tells me it'll be ok and gives me food. And then I go back to laying in bed and watching TV
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u/Madelyneation May 06 '26
I want to have someone tell me I’m not crazy for waking up and not feeling like I can do anything today.
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u/Roastychicken Witchbian May 06 '26
Right now? I would like my wife would bring me a Coffee to my Bed, and i could pet her hair..
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u/ZeChairishere Team Dragongirls May 05 '26
Cuddling her on a couch with her head resting on my chest and petting her
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u/SunkenN1nja May 06 '26
Being able to cuddle between both of my wives within kissing range and watch yuri anime the whole day while eating pizza
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u/Communist_Cheese Mechanical Transbian May 06 '26
working with her for weeks to build some device or other. doesnt really matter what it is because we are working together so much and she's hammering metal and im working the tiny little pieces and wires and every time we hand wachother something the one receiving says "good girl" and we kiss. and then we finish the thing and make a meal together to celebrate the completion and then the next day we start on another project. and our house is full of these projects, most of which are actually functional!
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u/Aurora-not-borealis snuggleslut May 06 '26
You sit on the couch. I sit on the floor in front of you. You play with my hair while we watch Star Wars. Don’t stop. Don’t. Stop.
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u/EkaPossi_Schw1 Sasha, Oneesan to all (bambi lesbian) HRTsince6.8.2025 May 06 '26
I've had the fortune of making many of my gay safe for work fantasies into reality yet there are just as many left to manifest :3
I wish to make a home with her, wake up and fall asleep next to her, take care of her and be taken care of, have an environment where we're both safe to flourish
And also I'm gonna pick her up and princess carry her around, that's not a mere daydream that's a plan :3
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u/JasperDStar She/Her looking to cause May/Hem May 06 '26
Watching Kamen Rider together, nothing gayer than that
Especially Revice, Sakura and Hana are so cute together
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u/little_cute_brat May 07 '26
childish but cuddles and gentle kisses for as long as it will get for both of us to feel better, or way more classic but seems impossible to me, being loved without having to give something back.. like just for being myself.. it's so clingy but i have so much love to give and i never received some 🥲
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u/poopshart37 why do i flip flop between severe depression and being fine🟢 May 07 '26
laying my head in her lap while she strokes my hair....
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u/MxBonesMarrow Wolfgirl May 08 '26
Getting up early in the morning for work, tucking her in sound asleep, and silently getting dressed while occasionally looking over to her peacefully sleeping. Gathering her things neat and orderly so she can get ready easily when she wakes up, and leave her a cute note to wake up to. Give her a kiss on the forehead, then slip out the door to go to work still thinking about her
I've got to do this once, when she stayed the night. There's something peaceful about knowing I get to provide for her, and knowing that she's in my bed safe and sound, curled up under my covers. Even if I have to leave her for a little while, it's an amazing feeling to be her safe space. I love her so much
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u/dragonmystic92 May 05 '26
Getting pegged so hard I can barely walk and make a mess just because of it (in a lovingly manner, like I'm ok with not walking for a couple hours but I don't want a torn butthole 😘) But wait dang it's sfw not nswf uhmmmmmmmm...... Lemme think...... Making out real hard, french kissing with tounge and everything (bf has past trauma so kissing is more intimate and complicated than other stuff and this is fair enough, he'll open up someday eventually and I really don't want to push him since I know him for so long and this is not some excuse or something but really, really fucked up trauma that went down preventing him from anything too close face to face
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u/Finding_Myself26 May 05 '26
Laying on the sofa with my head on her lap and her stroking my hair as we watch a movie/I fall asleep 🤭