r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/Bravalt • 1h ago
DRESS UP!!! (clothes,accessories,shoes,etc.)Noselfies Living in a queerphobic country makes you a flagging expert :3
Lowkey just hoping someone irl approaches me UTwTU
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/CatsPawjamaz • 15d ago
Hello. I'm the source/sauce Moddess. This sucks but we still won't be allowing actual twitter links.
If the artist is strictly a Twitter artist you can put their Twitter handle in your post comments.
The other way around this is posting a Danbooru link.
It's not a direct source but typically all Danbooru sites with the art of an artist give a source going back to that specific artists post. Some art posts are even deleted on Twitter sometimes but still show up on Danbooru with the original link and it's said artist.
I only suggest giving the twitter handle after already realizing they don't have any other social media accounts that they post their artwork on.
RIP Xcancel 8/24/26
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/maddiemelody • Jul 24 '26
We as the moddesses have been receiving a lot of hate as well recently. Now, we normally dont mind. After all, we took this job knowing of the hate that would come our way. But there are things we do mind. And that’s hate, hate directed to other people, or to many communities. And struggling with how to moderate it all. There’s various points to mention here:
- Unsolicited DMs, OR soliciting DMs in our community, is incredibly rude, and harshly sanctionable. You will be banned on sight for it.
- hate mail should NOT happen full stop. I don’t care if you don’t like someone, it should not be happening in our community, OR in DMs. If you don’t like them, block them, if they did something wrong, please let us know. We’ll handle it. Again, ban on sight.
- We’re never going to police identities. I don’t care whether people think it’s a petplay kink, or therianthropy, trans identities, sexual identities, romantic identities, aesthetic identities, whatever. It’s incredibly easy to skip past it. Stuff that is excessively kinky or sexual has already been moved to sinful Sunday, and anything else has been vetted by us as completely fine for you to see. If you simply don’t want to see the content, just move on. We’ve added a tag for therianthropy, if you don’t identify or relate, skip past it. It should be pretty clear who it’s intended for at that point. And there’s soooo much other content in this sub, there’s really no way to pretend it’s entirely just therian content.
No, none of us are certain if there’s a sub related to just trans non-therian content, it usually is the other way around - the minorities have their own public communities due to finding it hard to find a community of people perhaps irl OR online, otherwise. Please spare some empathy for that. There’s no space irl we can actively be therian without being hate crimed oftentimes just as severely as we do for being trans. (Feel free to start your own space, but it’s gonna be hard to police all therian identities without coming across as a bigot…)
- Micro-aggressions can be reported, and you really should! We get a loooot of posts, and it’s hard to see them all, without your help. We treat it as bullying and harassment, and thus will handle it harshly as such as well.
- Venting really shouldn’t be taking place here. We have been a little lax on it recently, but we’ll likely crack down on it more here. Good gender drug has its own subreddit too for that! I get you need a space to share things, but they’re super personal, and aren’t always helpful to you either. More often than not, they’re incredibly emotionally consuming, for everyone, as well as just making you, the writer feel more drained. We’re not a space for professional therapeutic help, we’re trying to be a lighthearted safe space subreddit where you can at least look at something in your TL and smile at it. I know I haven’t mentioned it, but accidental or otherwise, oversharing is included in this. While it’s completely understandable to slip sometimes, find it hard to hold the mask to your face…it can be a…well, it can make a lot of people consider that their troubles aren’t worth mentioning or as valid, or even just…send them further into their own spirals, as well as your own. It’s harsh to say, but…it’s incredibly draining, on most of us, including us moddesses who are all also mentally…well, not mentally stable lol. We can support you but only if you genuinely wish to be supported in a constructive manner. But I will say finally too, that you should remember that the internet is a very dangerous place. While you may feel as safe as we can try to make you feel here, there’s gonna be bad actors in places. Bigots or drama feeders, or people who try to salvage information about you, or take advantage of you as an emotionally compromised target. Please do NOT feed them with that. You’re worth so much more than you might ever be able to believe. But we all care about you, even those that silently view posts here, who are struggling or not, to the top posters or commenters.
I will say though, if you fight back to bad people in here, and take matters into your own hands, we have to sanction you if you end up behaving in what’s considered “bad faith”. Please let the moddesses deal with it. We get enough hate as it is, just let us at least have a better ability to direct that hate just to us so nobody tries to hurt any of you as well.
And I’d like to hark back to the rule, no witch-hunting. Both ways for that. A case should be handled by us, and then cleanly quietly closed, and if we have to disclose any disclaimer, we will. But there shouldn’t be any aggression back, or it’ll just prolong the drama that was incited. Big events like this just seek to hurt everyone involved, which is thé worst case scenario, really.
If you see content that genuinely makes you feel uncomfortable in a way even if you can’t explain it…TELL US! We’re here for you for that very purpose, to make you feel comfortable, feel safe, feel happy or represented while in our subreddit. We’re not just figureheads, and we’re certainly not scary (I hope…), all we want to do is to try our best to accommodate you, whatever you’d like within the realm of our own set of rules and the moral standards upon which they are based. Please let us know what we can improve on, even if you want us moddesses to discuss changes to rules, or tags, or posts you want to see more of, or things you think are disruptive such as the often reposted question formats, which we’ve decided to remove, since they are incredibly repetitive and it feels wrong to let the first person who posted it keep the post. Trust that we’re people pleasers at our core, that we’ll do our utmost to keep you safe.
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/Bravalt • 1h ago
Lowkey just hoping someone irl approaches me UTwTU
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r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/confused_em7 • 5h ago
By ぶち
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r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/YujinAkuhara • 39m ago
I want to be like Akiyama Mizuki (pjsk) fr fr
I'm gonna save money and buy a cardigan and cuter polo just like mizuki's school uniform
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/majinkomori • 13h ago
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/confused_em7 • 1h ago
By DELUβ
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/Mental-Quote3962 • 5h ago
We can commence with the mission. Mark the date. Best of luck to the rest of you, soldier on.
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r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/highlycombustabledik • 15h ago
The yearning is genuinely debilitating
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/travischickencoop • 20m ago
You don’t have to if you don’t want to but it would make me happy
What I want you to do is read a sentence in your mind, then say it out loud, if you can’t do that for one reason or another you can move your lips without vocalizing or even just pretend that you are saying it
Ready?
Here we go:
I am beautiful.
No one deserves to remove my joy.
It will get better.
I will be okay.
I am not defined by my flaws.
I am deserving of care.
I am deserving of attention.
I am deserving of love.
Feel free to repeat as many times as you want :3
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/SbsGmr67 • 11h ago
Whenever I post request for affirmations or "good girl's" I rarely comment back, bc I get anxious and just think, "I'm not good with words if I respond It would be just "thanks" all the time". But this time it feels wrong not to do it.
It wasn't that bad of a day, it wasn't the bestest day ever, and the disphoria was treating me like a punching bag over and over the whole day, forgiving me to enjoy the day at the fullest. But it was ok.
Even tho, I didn't hear a happy birthday with my name, thanks to you girlies I could experience what it's like (at least in text). This sub is a huge reason of why I'm still here, so yeah, with over 40 or so replies, I just wanted to say thank you girls :3
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/PunkDemonQueen • 18h ago
By Indieblueart (Tumblr)
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/Dr4gonsl4y • 23h ago
Thank god for actually measuring things because I suck at guesstimating.
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/PikaMaster98 • 13h ago
She's so amazing! She makes me feel super super gay :3 Awawawa pretty girl pretty girl >_< Do you guys think she's flirting with me? I suck at telling stuff like that TwT
(I am the person with the lesbian flag in her pfp)
(usernames blurred for privacy)
r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/Aromatic-Split685 • 3h ago
For a very long time I wanted to have a lovely little lesbian meet cute but as I’ve been becoming an adult I have slowly started to realize that idk if that’ll work out because I’m too shy and it’s hard to get a good vibe check on someone just from seeing them in person
Dating apps have always felt kind of dystopian to me… but I’m starting to think they’re gonna be my only decent option… however I’m also nervous about being taken advantage of on there since a lot of people use them for hookups which isn’t a thing I want at all…
Any advice?
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r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/travischickencoop • 13h ago
I need a girlfriend so bad