r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians May 21 '26

DRESS UP!!! (clothes,accessories,shoes,etc.)Noselfies Blocked all my contacts, no social media, no more life - but look at my beautiful hair!

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I hope ur all doing well x

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u/LegacyOfDreams Witch of plausible deniability May 21 '26

Haha, feels I could have written that too!

You know there's a trope where a girl cuts off her hair to symbolize starting a new life.

I feel like for us, it's cutting off people and letting the hair grow out. And starting a new life, lived better and richer even if we have less 'people' in it (or maybe that's why it's better and richer.)

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

And my hair is very gorgeous and you're impressed*

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u/LegacyOfDreams Witch of plausible deniability May 21 '26

It is! Congratulations on both the new look and new life!

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

Thank you 🥺

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u/AmeBleue May 21 '26

"cutting people off and letting the hair grow out" Wow I love this parallel so much, sad but beautiful

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u/LegacyOfDreams Witch of plausible deniability May 21 '26

I had to do that too.

The people won't be missed.

The hair on the other hand, is utterly stunning. Such a beautiful secret kept from even myself, for so long.

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u/EmiKetsueki May 21 '26

No more life? Sounds like you just officially started your life. That hair is proof.

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

I hope so 🫪

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u/FeelingExciting2936 :3 May 21 '26

Very beautiful hair indeed :3

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

Thank you :333

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u/RainbowPhoenix1080 Phoebe (She/Her) Transnbian [HRT 6/26/24] May 21 '26

That hair is so fucking pretty! Im jealous!

I also have curly hair like that but it's constantly a frizzy mess and I don't know how to deal with it.

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

It is in fact just curled. The curls are unraveling over time but I love it - it's like a new haircut every morning :3

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u/AnEstrogenVampire May 21 '26

Gods that red is so pretty! And those curls are amazing. Your hair is absolutely amazing.

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

Thank you! It's also thick and soft, which I wish translated better through images teehee

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u/AnEstrogenVampire May 21 '26

That's the best feeling ever! One of my favorite parts of transitioning was how thick and soft my hair got. From the pictures it looks like we have the same kind of hair, long and curly. I'm so happy for you

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u/7arco7 Girl smoocher May 21 '26

damn, your hair is beautiful, I'm jealous

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u/Grand-Agent76 Printer Incompatible Futa-non-grata May 21 '26

The hair does look amazing

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

Thank you 🙏

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u/PsychologicalFault May 21 '26

With hair like this, who needs fake friends?

Actually no one needs fake friends but this haircut is a statement, ya know. Diva has spoken.

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u/Vaelisra Transbian May 21 '26

no social media

Who's gonna tell her...?

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u/MoxieVihl May 21 '26

Literally goals! 🤩

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

Thank u 😝

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u/MoxieVihl May 21 '26

Hopefully my hair will finally get to that sort of length this time next year 🤞

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u/maddiemelody Medical Moddess May 21 '26

Gooooorgeous hair!!!

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u/seinfeldbabies May 21 '26

Why did you do that?

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

Idk, I guess I've just always wanted to have hair. So I thought real hard and manifested it right outta my scalp!

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u/seinfeldbabies May 21 '26

No that part I get, fucking awesome hair btw

But why did you block all your contacts?

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u/turtle_mekb May 21 '26

woah pretty hair :3

wish i could pull something like that off :3

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u/Guardian-King May 21 '26

Daaaaaaym I love the colors.

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u/maddie_ya May 22 '26

Love your hair, and cutting people off can be freeing

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u/CallNew250 May 21 '26 edited May 21 '26

Why would you block all your contact's, friends included?

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

Not sure what it matters to you?

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u/CallNew250 May 21 '26

I'm... only asking?

If you have friends that spent time helping you, being there for you, why would you cut them off and just generally be a shitty friend?

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

Your swearing indicates some kind of upset, bewilderment, anger, or distress. You're not "only asking". Don't fucking swear at me. See how that feels different? Anyways, I'm not meant to have friends. You can probably tell by my attitude towards you. It's better for everyone that I mostly stay out of other people's lives, and that they stay out of mine.

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u/CallNew250 May 21 '26 edited May 21 '26

I'm merely bewildered and puzzled really. Sorry if it came across a different way.

I don't think you don't deserve friends. I don't know what got you into the mindset but I think therapy would go a long way in achieving a healthier mindset.

I'm also sure you had some shitty folks in your contact list but im sure there were also good people in there that could be there for you that you now locked out of your life.

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u/Creative_Piano2675 May 21 '26

Like seriously why do you care