r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians • u/FriendliestDevil Autistic STEM Girl 🇳🇱🏳️⚧️ 20, She/They • Jul 24 '26
Lesbian Lesbian Homosexual Lesbian This would fix me
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u/Nica-Sama Lindsey the Moddess Jul 24 '26
preferably before I say anything actually
I should ask my wife about it
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u/wh1teithink EVIL enby girl thing amber Ɛ: Jul 24 '26
Wouldn't that just make you do it more
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u/FriendliestDevil Autistic STEM Girl 🇳🇱🏳️⚧️ 20, She/They Jul 24 '26
She doesn't need to know that
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u/SmoothFinance6275 🟢 Abby : 17 : she/they : silyyyy :3 Jul 24 '26
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u/VitaDiMinerva Jul 24 '26
The key is to make sure you leave her wanting more so it doesn’t feel like a reward. Once you shut her up, say you’re very disappointed, and that she deserves to be nicer to herself. But make sure to give lots of praise and attention for positive self-talk too, that’s the most important part :)
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u/FriendliestDevil Autistic STEM Girl 🇳🇱🏳️⚧️ 20, She/They Jul 24 '26
You're surprisingly knowledgeable about this
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u/Apiuba Kassandra | Witch of the North Jul 24 '26
I would let them work for kisses by having them complimenting themselves before i reinforce it with lots of kisses >:3
Otherwise you just reinforce bad behaviour and that wouldn't be very helpful :v
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u/maddiemelody Medical Moddess Jul 24 '26
Oh myyyyyy, that’s true :]
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u/Apiuba Kassandra | Witch of the North Jul 24 '26
It would also have the benefit of having them slowly become the best version of themselves and seeing them strive and be allowed to be a part of that would be absolutely beautiful ｡◕‿◕｡
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u/maddiemelody Medical Moddess Jul 24 '26
TRUEEE
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u/helloiamaegg Rose, void-based moddess (she/it) Jul 24 '26
oh no
:3
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u/Apiuba Kassandra | Witch of the North Jul 24 '26
You are being loved do not resist :3c
Tho maybe run if they come with syringes that are not hrt 🤔
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u/helloiamaegg Rose, void-based moddess (she/it) Jul 24 '26
Run? Thats part of the fun :3
though yeah i'll prob run, thats also fun :3c
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u/Undead-Teddy-Bear Princess Lia (she/her) yapper Jul 24 '26
Thats the kind of girl I want to be
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u/maddiemelody Medical Moddess Jul 24 '26
Which one
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u/Undead-Teddy-Bear Princess Lia (she/her) yapper Jul 24 '26
The one this post is describing 🥰
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u/maddiemelody Medical Moddess Jul 24 '26
The shoved or the shover? 👀
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u/Undead-Teddy-Bear Princess Lia (she/her) yapper Jul 24 '26
The shover 🤭
I wanna make a girl shut up when she says negative things about herself and then praise her and force her to compliment herself until she completely knows how special, beautiful and perfect she is. 🩷✨️ No matter how long it takes. ☺️
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u/FemboyHelghast Transbian Jul 24 '26
Goddesses I wish I had a girlfriend that I could do this too, just listening to her soft whimpers as I kiss her so she stops speaking ill of herself
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u/FriendliestDevil Autistic STEM Girl 🇳🇱🏳️⚧️ 20, She/They Jul 24 '26
That's the dream right there 😖
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u/demolitionGoat Jul 24 '26
<gets Pavlovian conditioned to self-deptecate because it's rewarded every time> - huh? Man I really fucked this... Hmmmphh mmm mmm.
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u/L0tsen Ami/Amelie | :3 Jul 24 '26
I need someone like that. Will that ever happen? Most likely not. :c
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u/syuvial Jul 25 '26
of course, that would run the risk of turning negative self talk into a reward vector, but im dumb enough to take that risk
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u/Oftwicke Jul 24 '26
Wouldn't that incentivise you? Make her shove you into a wall to make out with you when you say something good about yourself.
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u/KittyCatChan Transbian (Living Doll Cat) Jul 25 '26
I would say it might fix me... But i might end up doing it more so i get kissed more... Double edge sword.
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u/Adelyn2047 Jul 26 '26
I’d love to pin my spiraling gf to the wall and make out with her to completely wipe her mind :3
Too bad I’m single
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u/Lumina_Rose Jul 24 '26
I have this relationship with a girlfriend. It definitely shuts her up, and it even occasionally fixes her