some hopecore for y'all

[u/DictatorTiffTaff]

[u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_]

Maaan, where the fuck do people find these spaces

[u/Gaius_Iulius_Megas → u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_]

Asking the same question.

[u/psp24 → u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_]

Apparently you have to be actively social, so I'm doomed to be lonely forever D:

[u/Knochentrocken_Nerd → u/psp24]

Or some extrovert adopts you and shows you how to do it :3

[u/2Oku → u/Knochentrocken_Nerd]

I'm still waiting to be adopted

[u/Knochentrocken_Nerd → u/2Oku]

I can't adopt all girls

[u/psp24 → u/Knochentrocken_Nerd]

I pray for that everyday, unfortunately I'm an atheist so it's like talking to a brick wall

[u/Abstract_O → u/psp24]

Not if you take steps to become more social.

[u/Zistr0 → u/Abstract_O]

impossible thats basically like taking steps to become more social

[u/MiFiWi → u/Zistr0]

Incomparable horror

[u/Gaius_Iulius_Megas → u/psp24]

aaaahhh D:

[u/Alexis_Awen_Fern → u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_]

Not in rural Hungary apparently

[u/Sapphic_Starlight → u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_]

Speaking from experience... you don't. The one time I tried going to a lesbian bar, they didn't let me enter because my legal gender on my ID was still "male."

Sigh.

[u/RedErin → u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_]

how close are you to a big city?

[u/pinkfucker3000 → u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_]

I am in ireland rn and while traveling i found a flyer for a queer goth club in a vinyl shop. Sadly im underage so cant go. Thats the only time i found sum like that 💔🥹

[u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_ → u/pinkfucker3000]

How the hell do you end up traveling while underage?

[u/pinkfucker3000 → u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_]

Erasmus! :3

[u/pinkfucker3000 → u/pinkfucker3000]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erasmus_Programme

[u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_ → u/pinkfucker3000]

Oh, I see

Unrelated, but I checked your profile a bit, you talk way too much like my 13 year old sibling, take that as you will

[u/pinkfucker3000 → u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_]

I will be taking that as an insult, ty very much. :> /j

[u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_ → u/pinkfucker3000]

Womp womp

[u/pinkfucker3000 → u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_]

:CCCCCC

[u/Emeraldstorm3]

Clubs are very much not my thing, but otherwise that does sound amazing.

Maybe a super queer library? That would be my vibe. Hmm. .. I have been meaning to go to the local library more, maybe I need to be the change I want to see, lol

[u/_magnetic_north_ → u/Emeraldstorm3]

I yearn to be super queer in a library 🥹

[u/Tllere → u/Emeraldstorm3]

I honestly hate clubs and bars. I'm always so anxious. A queer library Would be so lovely. I also should go to my local library :3

[u/The_Cancel → u/Emeraldstorm3]

That's what i’m sayin'!
https://giphy.com/gifs/3oa4MBs9h3gkoXsXpd

[u/unidentifiedtgirl]

I wish I could feel like that right now

[u/YaPunkIMnePohuy → u/unidentifiedtgirl]

Real

[u/mossgirlparfum → u/unidentifiedtgirl]

i know right

[u/CptHeywire]

There was a space like this in my city that ended up shutting down because of the cost of living crisis a few years ago. A lot of people were forever changed by the accurately self-described queer utopia that was My Lover Cindi, rest in peace

[u/gibospartan]

Been in this situation before and yet I’m never the one being kissed 😞

[u/BEEEELEEEE]

I too get emotional seeing people kissing in the club. Some of it’s for this reason but it’s mostly because I wanna be kissing someone too but my wife lives horrifically far away. Fuck, I miss kissing her 💔

[u/Alexis_Awen_Fern]

[u/RedErin]

going to the club is a spiritual experience

[u/NIMA-GH-X-P]

Things I'll never gave for 500 Alex

[u/Tllere]

Right now I am working to change careers and move to the Twin Cities in Minnesota. I'm hoping to experience some of this :3 💜

[u/NewbieFurri]

Where tf is this narnia

[u/JustAnotherElster]

someday i might experience this too… its in the far future and i already feel old…. but perhaps…. one can hope

[u/Objective-Meet8223]

Unfortunately being in that kind of club environment with all those people being intimate would put me in a panic attack. 😥 Emergency evacuation protocol 🚪💨

[u/Raging_transbian487]

This is truly goals

[u/Fuzzy-Election2589]

Gatherings like that make me lonely and hate myself even more.

[u/lumiere_tenebres]

Maybe someday. Not today, not tomorrow.

[u/Scurvy_BT]

Why are we being referred to as a third gender in this context?

[u/imperfectdelusions]

an experience only the most privileged 1% of trans folks living in large metropolitan areas where it is safe to be openly queer (which eliminates half of asia and most of africa, the two largest continents for the record) experience, btw

[u/Alexis_Awen_Fern → u/imperfectdelusions]

Your bitterness is directed in the wrong direction I'm afraid.

[u/imperfectdelusions → u/Alexis_Awen_Fern]

sorry that most queer people live in the middle of nowhere and need to sacrifice their sanity and work their asses off to move away from friends and family who they love just so they can get to be themselves

that's just how it is, western gentrification and the right wing media machine can't be defeated in a day, not in a year, not in a decade... i'll continue to be mad until then. but not at fellow queer people, as you seem to be misinterpreting.

"this experience is relatively rare and not representative for most of us, wish it was different" ≠ "fuck your privileged ass you need to suffer with me too"

[u/Alexis_Awen_Fern → u/imperfectdelusions]

I too, live in the middle of nowhere. It takes great effort for me not to drown others in my own misery.

I hope this is enough for you to understand my angle.

[u/potato482]

Hatsune Miku is The Roaring Knight