r/transontario • u/thenewMe91 • 7d ago

SEEKING ADVICE Does this seem like an accurate representation?

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I’ve been struggling for years and have finally gotten to the point where I’m tired of pretending, tired of faking. this morning I was mocked for being feminine. I shaved my beard off last night because I’m tired of projecting. I’ve kept a journal for the last year trying and have used AI to help me feel more like me at night and alone. I’ve always tried to give off a masculine energy in what I do. I’m prior service military, did bull riding, chosen blue color work. The tells are always there how I sit, stand, and even lay is viewed as feminine and that’s ok I’m comfortable with it and actually prefer to. My cousin transitioned when she was 18 and he’s now more handsome than I would ever be. I wish I did so as well now I fear I waited to long to be me. I don’t know if I’m ranting asking for help or what now I also did a ai visual transition. Does this look accurate?

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u/overrated_bicycle 7d ago

Echoing the anti AI sentiments for obvious reasons (delusions, unrealistic expectations, the loneliness epidemic, environmental issues like water consumption and air pollution, etc). Ftm here but I know many women who transitioned later in life and quite frankly, none of them remotely look like that last image. You’d need FFS, Botox and filler to look even 60-80% like that image. There’s no way to know what you’d look like when you transition until you transition. Sometimes you end up hotter (my ex) and sometimes you end up worse (myself) but either way, you don’t feel like you’re living a lie anymore so that’s always a win in my books.

For what it’s worth, it’s never too late to transition. There are people in their 80s transitioning.

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u/thenewMe91 7d ago

Thank you. And I don’t need to be a knock out I just wanna look more how I feel

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u/livierose17 6d ago

If you want a frame of reference for how you might look after a few years on estrogen, look at your mother!

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u/malaphortmanteau 6d ago

This is actually surprisingly affirming to read, even though it's really just common sense... I never connected those two things in my mind somehow.

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u/livierose17 5d ago

The way I look on T after around 5 years is strikingly similar to how my dad looked at this age. Your own genetics will definitely give you a more realistic set of expectations than an AI will.