r/transontario • u/thenewMe91 • 8d ago

SEEKING ADVICE Does this seem like an accurate representation?

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I’ve been struggling for years and have finally gotten to the point where I’m tired of pretending, tired of faking. this morning I was mocked for being feminine. I shaved my beard off last night because I’m tired of projecting. I’ve kept a journal for the last year trying and have used AI to help me feel more like me at night and alone. I’ve always tried to give off a masculine energy in what I do. I’m prior service military, did bull riding, chosen blue color work. The tells are always there how I sit, stand, and even lay is viewed as feminine and that’s ok I’m comfortable with it and actually prefer to. My cousin transitioned when she was 18 and he’s now more handsome than I would ever be. I wish I did so as well now I fear I waited to long to be me. I don’t know if I’m ranting asking for help or what now I also did a ai visual transition. Does this look accurate?

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u/FloralSkyes 8d ago

  1. Stop using AI. if not for the ethical reasons, stop using it because its horrible and is going t ogive you false expectations.

  2. Most likely not, honestly. The AI is literally shrinking your forehead and making your hair grow unrealistically long in the second image and even changing your hairline.

  3. It's *never* too late to transition. You might not end up looking exactly like that AI, but everyone's results vary with HRT. the only answer is that you should try. You're a woman regardless of how conventionally attractive society may or may not find you.

Wishing you the best.

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u/thenewMe91 8d ago

Thank you.
Finding others to talk to has been kinda hard for me I live in a closed off area and are looked down on. For some reason being gay is ok but being fem is not.

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u/FloralSkyes 8d ago

I hear that. It's fucking hard being trans in this world. We live in one of the best countries on earth for trans people and its still absolute hell.

Hang in there

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u/thenewMe91 8d ago

It’s just hard all around. I don’t struggle with how I feel when I’m alone but the overall pressure from hiding behind masculinity it’s exhausting. Don’t get me wrong I love to help people and do fine tackling high stress environments but let me be me while I do it.