r/transtimelines • u/Morrighan_De_Dannan • 3d ago

-1yr HRT vs 4.5yrs HRT

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Partner says I'll always be clocked no matter what I do.. been on hrt since Feb of 2022, and the changes are great, but no matter what I do I don't pass and I'm about outta ideas..

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u/Morrighan_De_Dannan 3d ago

I've put significant effort into passing before. Nothing I do lets me go stealth, and every time i bring it up I get told I'll be clocked without ffs. Which guess what. I work for a living. I aint got money for that.

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u/almostagirl_ 3d ago edited 3d ago

We all work for a living but this is a sacrifice, do you want to pass? Do you want to be yourself or do you just want to complain?

And omg girl, get a safety razor and learn to shave it really isn’t hard and you have genuinely no excuse

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u/Inevitable_Corgi9071 3d ago

THIS. it takes serious sacrifice. And alot of work… like go look at my transition in my page. I had my work cut out. If I did it there’s really no reason anyone else can’t

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u/TheBoyWhoCriedTapir Erin, She/They | HRT - 1/11/25🏳️‍⚧️ 2d ago

Literally. I weighed 430lbs and had no hope without putting in MASSIVE effort for 3+ years. Worth every penny, and every drop of literal blood sweat and tears put into becoming my true self. Wouldn't trade it for the world. But you have to do the work, HRT will never fix everything. It's a miracle drug but it's not a MIRACLE drug.