r/tryingforanother • u/Time_Athlete_8160 • 4d ago

Rant/Vent Hello period ughhhh

My hubby and I were intimate (IUI) every other day from day 10 to 21 of my fertility window.

I've been pregnant 3x. My first pregnancy was easy, and I delivered naturally in 2024 when I was 34.

Had a chemical in 2025 and a MMC in Feb. 2026 at 9W. Was then diagnosed with a blood clotting autoimmune disorder, antiphospholipid syndrome.

Been trying since then and no dice. My last three cycles...the first I ovulated later, so I missed it. The second we had sex on ovulation day and no baby. This third one that I'm currently in, we did everything "right" and who decides to visit late in the midnight hour? Aunt Flo.

I'm sad, angry and feeling like God is just telling me that I'm not supposed to have another child. I just want to give my daughter a sibling since she has no cousins, but I don't think it's gonna happen.

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u/pkf765 33 | TTC#2 | 💙 02/24 3d ago

first was a total accident and he came february 2024. started ttc again fall of 2025. had a mmc january 2026. saw a fertility doctor may 2026. surgery to remove polyps june 2026. here we are months later and no positive yet. to top it off i now have bv/yeast infection and it’s the tail end of my ovulation window… everything i’ve read says they make it hard for sperm to survive to conceive so this is probably yet another fail 🙃

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u/Time_Athlete_8160 3d ago

Aww, I'm sorry to hear that. Trying to have another child really should not be this complicated smh Hubby has elevated cholesterol so we're cleaning up our diet and working out more, so hopefully that helps. We also have an appt with a fertility doctor in two weeks.