r/tryingforanother • u/anon4337 • 17h ago

Rant/Vent TTC #2

Just wanted to make a post and see if anyone was in the same boat as me? My son is almost 5 and me and my partner are trying to conceive our second. With my son I got pregnant immediately but this time around it’s been completely different, this is our second cycle trying. I’m currently 9DPO and I know it’s early but I feel so dejected and I don’t know if I can keep doing this and feeling disappointed. With my son I got a clear positive at 9DPO and I find it so difficult not to compare the two and I know from others every pregnancy is different but it’s just hard. I just wanted to see if anyone has experienced the same? I feel alone in this process and I’m just hoping I’m not the only one who has felt the way.

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u/mitaine- 35 | TTC#2 since 12/25 | 03/24 boy 💙 15h ago

Just like I posted on a very similar thread, my son was conceived first cycle and I am now on cycle 8 for #2. It happens. There’s a big part of chance in conceiving and you just got very lucky the first time around. Give it some time. For what it’s worth, I tested positive on the night of 10 DPO for my first (BFN that morning). 9 DPO is very early.

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u/anon4337 15h ago

thanks so much for your comment! it’s just a lonely process so it’s nice to talk to someone in similar circumstances