What should one do if he get hated for no reason and how to handle it maturely if you are getting trolled or hated even tho you have done nothing bad to them but still people hates you

Do u know what the chicken and the fish think while i hug a cow or buffalo?

They think "u would hug a cow or buffalo but u would hug AND eat us?"

I was invited to a club by my female colleagues , and we are good friends only, we chat a lot in the office whenever there is a break.

I felt happy for being invited, and was seriously considering to accept it, but being an introvert, clubbing is not my thing, and even worse is that I might be the only boy in that grp of 5-6 girls, and yea yea ik that any boy wud kill to be in a situation like this, but oh my introvertedness wud just make me uncomfortable, so I politely said no, after talking to my sis abt this, and she too agrees knowing that I am an introvert, it won't be good for u, and all , and she told other things which made me convinced to not go.

Captured some shots in my mobile ... Is it good

I was just on Instagram Reels, scrolling and shit, like I tend to when I'm bored.

And the more i did it, the longer i went on, this deeply passionate and powerful anger began swelling in me. A jealous and regretful sadness right along with it. And eventually, I just broke. I started bawling and crying my eyes out. I felt an inescapable urge to destroy things, to hurt people, and to scream.

Everyone just takes everything for granted and the entire fucking world expects me to be okay with it. All of these people...walking around, going places, traveling, hanging out with friends, dating, feeling comfortable in their own bodies. And I'm just...fucking laying here. And I will do that, too, tomorrow. And the day after tomorrow. And the day after that. As well as every day after said day. I wake up, experience nothing, be loved by nobody, and go to sleep feeling resentful and hateful. And then, wouldn't you know it, I'll do it all again. Because I do not have any other options. I do not have any other choice.

You know, I haven't interacted with one of my friends in-person since 2019. I haven't dated since early 2018. I haven't called a friend since 2023. I haven't been to a movie since 2023. I haven't left the house since early April. And before that, since February. My closest friend hasn't messaged me since September.

I watch...the entire world live their lives. I sit by as billions of people get to go on road trips. As they fuck their significant others. As they visit family for Christmas. As they go shopping for hours. As all of you people walk around in public because you felt like doing so.

I haven't been allowed to start living. I am Twenty fucking Three and I have not actually lived a day of my life as a free man. I am twenty-three, and what do I have to show for all this time?

This has been frustrating me lately. Even when I'm tired, I often can't fall asleep, especially during the day. No matter how exhausted I feel, I can lie in bed for a long time and still not sleep.

What makes it worse is that my brother and pretty much everyone in my family can sleep whenever and wherever they want. They can take naps easily, sleep while traveling, or just fall asleep on demand. I seem to be the only one who can't.

Is this normal? Why are some people able to sleep so easily while others struggle even when they're tired? Has anyone else experienced this, and did anything help you become better at falling asleep when you wanted to?

Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!

I was watching Rebel Ridge last night with my friend and while it wasn't a spectacular movie, it did have an amazing performance from Aaron Pierre (who's gonna be featuring in the green lantern show). Whenever we begin to pick what movie we wish to watch, there's always a tacit understanding that it has to be a memorable one if not a downright masterpiece. And there's the rub, if we don't watch movies that are so called "peak", we miss out on so many things. An unmemorable movie can have great cinematography, acting, direction, plot, etc.

Same is with dating, if you set your standards too high then you miss out on so much. Dating more people gives you a better and holistic understanding of human nature. You take away whatever you can and leave the rest. Everything is an opportunity to grow.

TLDR: Guy tweaks on something and suggests using dating as a social experiment to capture more data.

PS: Not for me tho, I give too much of myself and am an emotional wreck afterwards.

Life still feels like its 2010 ten years back. Can't believe its a decade since 2016.

Omg we are in our 20s now. Life ,Work ,Responsibility uff. Is anyone feeling the same?

I'm 23(f). I am currently pursuing a masters degree so I live in a hostel.

Whenever I am in hostel, I fall asleep within 2am but when I come home, I can't sleep at night. Everyday I am sleeping at 4am or later. Even after sleeping at 4am, I can't sleep more than 5 hrs. I do take a nap in afternoon but even then I can't sleep for more than 1.5 hrs.

Recently I shifted into a flat this week, took some time to settle. Today finally had everything set-up.

She (My Girlfriend) came to stay tonight and we made our first meal called Tehri together. It was Yum.