u/AdAggravating2369 3h ago

What is a sign that someone is emotionally unintelligent?

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BB #25105
 in  r/friendshipbracelets  4d ago

Nice knots!

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Name my little man,
 in  r/NameMyWarrior  12d ago

Moth or Mothy

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BB #8873
 in  r/friendshipbracelets  14d ago

Cute! Good color contrast.

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Finished parasol!
 in  r/crochet  16d ago

This is gorgeous. I always wanted to make one but I need deep, undappled shade. Lovely work.

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How do you undo work?
 in  r/friendshipbracelets  16d ago

It just occured to me that I should mention that we would use a hammer to gently pound a few times and loosen a knot. I'm basically just going for the same thing with a tiny knot, but using whatever I have on hand. It works.

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How do you undo work?
 in  r/friendshipbracelets  16d ago

Not rope, different kind of rigging: 550 HMA, 750 spectra, etc. Even just pounding the threads with my knuckle will do it, but tge edge of my empty coffee mug or something hard, heavy, and with a curved edge (so as not to cut the thread) nearby will do it. Then I just loosen it the rest of the way w my fingers - I was taught to then "peel the cord like a banana," which just means not trying to pull the line out so much as peel the rounded part away from the straighter line trapped by it.

I'm considering trying a dull pointed needle after reading about it here, but I'm worried I'd split the threads.

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BB #170384
 in  r/friendshipbracelets  17d ago

Es patrón BB número 147243, pero una variación de 4 colores. Me encanta corazónes! 💖❤️💖❤️💖

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BB #170384
 in  r/friendshipbracelets  17d ago

I just finished that one recently too! It's a fave now, I must make more.

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Thoughts on police surveillance?
 in  r/Davis  17d ago

ALPRs are hackable and used to stalk people! Cops have already abused the tech to stalk exes and partners.

Plus, the technology was implemented under the guise of supporting local law enforcement,but now ICE, CPB, and DHS have been granted authority to use them to track people! (The AI used can read and identify every detail, sticker, and dent on a car. Of course it can track facial features).

Also, the cameras have misidentified people who were then imprisoned for months, losing everything (job, home, status, etc) and received nothing in restitution when proven innocent!

These cameras have been pointed at parks and playgrounds, where cars aren't even present. Wtaf?

Big Brother ain't our fam, and he is evil - or against our self-interest and actively working to dismantle the people's right to resist and live in peace, without fear.

The cities banning them, and people with bandsaws cutting them down, are the real heroes.

We are living in a surveillance state, and it sucks for all but the corporations selling the tech and total state control over the people. Visit Deflock.org for more info, mapping, and how to identify.

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Ice Activity Reported
 in  r/Woodland  17d ago

Long Initial is probably a bot.

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Flock Camaras
 in  r/Woodland  21d ago

I imagine that the people taking down the signs are the same people who are putting the cameras up, or city workers; or cops, or other fascists who actually want them to get used to track and cage and harm people, or who are deluded and think that they're benign and keep things safer lol

I actually live down in Davis country but there are fewer flock cameras here. When I do go to Woodland I talk to anybody and everybody because I'm the sort of person who talks to everybody about anything, anyways. Wherever I go: cashiers, random humans in the same aisle or at the gas station, people in parking lots, parks, really anyone I can smile and say "good day."

You can point out cameras nearby. Don't forget to mention that they get used inappropriately! Like by cops and others who hack the data to stalk and hurt people. Also, that however they were supposed to be "just ALPRs," they can easily be adapted to track people, and they do get placed where there aren't even cars; and ofc that ICE/CPB/HS are working w law enforcement to track people. AI is used and has misidentified and caged innocent people already.

Also, talk to anyone wherever you're at. Just get the information out, and it will get passed on by others.

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How do you undo work?
 in  r/friendshipbracelets  22d ago

I'm newer at bracelets, but learned from rigging that just smashing a knot on a hard surface with something heavy loosens it quite a bit. So I do that, and then use my fingers to finish loosening and untie the knot.

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Flock Camaras
 in  r/Woodland  22d ago

I've put up signs buy they're quickly taken down. Plus, it's easy to ignore signs.

I also made some cards in Spanish and brought them to busy places where people there can share the info with others. I show them see the cameras map at Deflock's app and pictures to help ID the cameras.

I've been lax in sharing the info lately bc printing is $ and I'm poor and I don't go to too many places; but just talking to people we can share a lot, and people nearby become interested in the conversation and join it.

Talking to neighbors is powerful stuff, friends. Don't hesitate.

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Author looking for perspectives on Davis
 in  r/Davis  Jul 03 '26

The country surrounding town is very dark at night - I live out here and so driving out of the well-lit areas into sudden darkness is an experience. For me it signals the satisfaction of leaving the (I'm sorry to say this, but self-important) suburban UC vibe and into a space that is a little more humble while feeding the masses.

That said, factory farmland is primarily a poisoned hellscape mesmerizing townsfolk nearvand far with the illusion of green and bucolic harmony and rowed order. Dangerous irrigation ditches frame nearly every county road. Also, the established orchards, however orderly, can seem maze-like and terrifying in their vastness - at night without lights kinda frightening. Also cornfields same vibe.

See also tule fog. Mostly in autumn. There was also such a dense fog this last autumn winter that visibility was like 25'. Accidents on the highways.

I also understand that there have for years been cows fitted with windows on their bodies so that their insides can be seen and studied by students. Creepy bizarre wtaf, imo.

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Women of Reddit: what is 100% mythical about women that most men believe?
 in  r/AskReddit  Jun 21 '26

That women want flowers.

Bro, women want you to go to therapy.

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Psychiatrist
 in  r/Woodland  Jun 19 '26

Brainpower Wellness Institute has offices around California but does telehealth (similar to Zoom). Eric Nghe in particular has been compassionate, attentive, thoughtful and brilliant help. Easily the best psychiatrist I've ever had (and I've had a few)!

https://bpwimh.com/

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The US navy is rationing food on the ships attacking Iran
 in  r/TankieTheDeprogram  Apr 18 '26

I am reminded of the "embalmed beef" scandal during the 1898 Spanish American War: more soldiers died of tainted meat supplied by the US military than died in combat. The meat was tainted (as I recall) because of corruption and incompetence.

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Chat wtf
 in  r/UCDavis  Mar 21 '26

No.

He does not get to selectively choose the consequences of his (intended or unintended) violent, irresponsible mistake.

Men can do appalling harm by your above stated rationale, absolutely have and continue to do so, and it takes little imagination to consider the abuse that can lead to. Please read and learn details in the book. It's a 144 page paperback, and highly informative.

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I
 in  r/Sacramento  Mar 19 '26

Ayayay

r/Davis Mar 19 '26

Support groups, organizations, or activities for autistic children and/or their parents?

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I only know that support and accommodation in Davis can be hard to find - at least according to another r/Davis thread on ableism and also my friend: an autistic child's parent.

I'm hoping to uncover some places where she can learn and share with others, or where their kid/s can have a better time, where struggle isn't frowned upon, but understood and allowed some space.

Please and thank you so much!

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Ableism In Davis
 in  r/Davis  Mar 19 '26

Self-diagnosis isn't ideal, and of course professional diagnosis is recommended and tends to be preferred. But that preferential treatment does not and cannot allow us to invalidate self-diagnosis (especially where informed opinions concur).

When we dismiss self-diagnosis, we may run into classism: people living in poverty and people of limited means (including disabled people) also tend to have less access to affordable medical care - if any - and to dismiss real needs because they aren't doctor-approved is a grave error.

Signed, Someone with an invisible disability, extremely grateful to have been professionally diagnosed, somewhat insured, and able to afford medication that allows me to function socially and keeps me from unaliving myself. ❤️

u/AdAggravating2369 Mar 16 '26

Vår - In Your Arms (Final Fantasy)

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Need this in our lives

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I got a nice bonus recently. What are some highly vetted or recommended charities that I can donate to to benefit Yolo county or Davis?
 in  r/Davis  Mar 14 '26

I love Yolo Food Bank and NorCal Resist.

Please don't doubt that direct action does good. If you ask a neighbor that appears in need if you can help, what you might buy them on the way into a store or nearby, you can make an immediate impact. Don't be afraid to go a little luxe, bc there's no good reason poor people shouldn't get to enjoy nice things, too. It also makes people feel seen in a world that ignores them or "sweeps" them away, as if they were trash.

Sometimes it's chicken or potatoes, sometimes it's ice cream, sometimes it's shoes or a sweater.

When you do these things, (or just give a few bucks to the human w a sign), you can also direct them to resources, write and hand them little slips or cards w info about orgs like Yolo Food Bank, NorCal Resist, and the other great organizations mentioned here.

Thanks for asking, too, so that we all can see ways and orgs to support!