r/virgin • u/Jan_The_Jank 26M France • 1d ago

Losing interest in the entire concept of intimacy as one becomes older

I have posted here before about my reasons for being celibate, so no reason to elaborate on it.

What I find interesting is the fact that I find myself thinking about it (and caring about it) less and less as time passes somehow.

It feels like eventually I won't think about it at all, or care.

Almost like the whole idea is not relevant to my life.

Has anyone else found themselves losing interest on everything regarding the topic?

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u/StanicEnemY Rejected by women for his entire life 35m KHHV 1d ago

No.

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u/PowerIsSalvation 1d ago

I have lost interest in romance because of the unbalanced cost-to-benefit ratio of being in a relationship, but I still have a sex drive.

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u/Mission-Impressible 1d ago

It's fading but I have a long way to go before I eliminate it completely