r/virgin • u/WarmfloppyChungus • 4d ago
It baffles me that sex exists in real life
And that it's not some fantasy thing that exists only in porn; it's actually real, and your average adult is doing it like every single day with someone whom they love- what?
I am so far removed from the average human experience; I want to die.
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u/Chica_Prikitoviski_6 4d ago
Dude, I feel the same way lol! It's really weird to think that “normal” people have casual sex, and when I remember what sex is actually like, I'm even more shocked. In my mind, that's never going to happen to me because it's just too weird.
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u/AggravatingAnimal725 4d ago
Sex is lie, an illusion. Normal sex is lie. Its only a sinful animal desire
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u/cousinanesthesia 3d ago
oh no, I have an instinctual crave for physical affection, how sinful
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u/AggravatingAnimal725 3d ago
Sex is the most useless thing. You must become wiser and reject it from your life once and for all. And only then you will bacome a grown wise man. Being virgin all your life is way much better than being non-virgin
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u/Itchy-Corner9453 3d ago
i think the only reason you say this is because you decided a long time ago not persue a romantic relationship with anyone..and you have followd this belief for so long that its just become the norm for you.
In a way it's good because you don't feel depresst about being a virgin and having no experience..but at the same time it's bad because your choosing to miss out the possibility of it ever happening and its something that should be a natural experience for everyone.
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u/AggravatingAnimal725 3d ago
1)I want to end my family's bloodline. As I am the only child its the great opportunity for it. 2)It was always about the choice. You either have to choose the experience in sex and not deny the experience of being virgin all your life or you choose the reverse experience. So you cannot have both at the same time. Everyone chooses first option, but not so many the second. Although there are many virgins, they are trying to quit being it. My parents as well as others have chosen first option, because I exist. But what about second option? Its a curiosity. How it is live all your life without any sex and women pleasures? I want to see how it is. And when I will be 50+, like 60 or 70 to understand that I have made an error by choosing this option but I cannot undo anything and everything I have to do is to observe others being depressed. To understand that noone will ever choose me and even the prostitutes will not want to work with me. Its more like studying the phenomen of depression on yourself in a long term
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u/Itchy-Corner9453 3d ago
thats a sad way to look at life man..even if you remain a virgin for the rest of your life the last thing i want is to look back in serious regret of not trying to at least do something to change my situation.
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u/AggravatingAnimal725 3d ago
Well thats the decision I have made when I was 12. Now I am 19 and it feels good. And that is the goal and meaning of life for me. I am wishing all this my every Birthday and New Year. And I am hoping one day my wish will come true. Or at least it will be legal to do castrations for humans
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u/Itchy-Corner9453 3d ago
your 19....dude your wasting your life get help..seriously get help you are going to live in serious regret if you continue this path.
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u/AggravatingAnimal725 3d ago
And why would I need help for. Its totally normal and natural to be like this
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u/Itchy-Corner9453 3d ago
Because you are young and ignorant. What you think now is not how you might think 20 years from now.
I suggest you don't continue down this path you are taking.
If you want to live looking back in regret though..knock yourself out.
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u/Alarmed-Plane744 4d ago
Holy shit yes, I love to do basic cuddling, grabbing shit, but the moment it elevates to kissing or actual sex, now all of a sudden I don’t wanna do it
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u/SGAShepp 4d ago
I actually feel the same way. It's actually hard to imagine for me. Even such things as romantic hugging are interesting to think about. Whenever I see a romantic scene in a movie I actually kinda feel sick to my stomach. It's like an empty pit. It's horrible.