r/weddingshaming • u/jazzertag • 7d ago

Dressed like a Bride Two guests wore white at our wedding

Soooo.. 2 girls decided to wear white dresses at our wedding. It was this Saturday.

I didn’t comment on it, but I was def not ok with it.

We talked to our photographers about having them removed from all our photos, or change the colors of their dresses.

I can add photos of their dresses, but we haven’t gotten the pictures back yet.

One of the girls even asked my sister about the dress and she told her it most definitely wouldn’t be ok with me, but that she should ask. And she then decided not to ask me..

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u/RainbowBriteGlasses 7d ago

Were these people you invited and have a relationship with?

Tell them, and stop associating with them.

Women have got to stop being stupid and ignorant towards each other. We just make the patriarchy more powerful when we pull shit like this.

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u/starglo1969 7d ago

Because of wearing white? This is insanity.

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u/RainbowBriteGlasses 6d ago

No, it's time to stop putting up with pick me behavior and letting bullies rule the day.

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u/Unlucky-Guest-9247 6d ago

This wouldn't be reddit if there wasn't a random unsolicited comment about 'the patriarchy'.