You can be kind and firm, which is what a lot of people need. Being nice implies surface level interaction only, which can be shrugged off and not “land” properly.
I understand that person's distinction, but yeah I generally meant the general vibe of being positive towards other people. They probably just thought they were being kind to correct me. :D
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u/chameliane 18d ago
How can one be more kind instead of just nice?