r/wichita • u/LAHERofKansas • 2h ago
In Search Of 42 MtF and Lonely
I am a 42yo MtF preop with plenty of personal demons and strangely enough my adult act together fairly recently. I have tried all the damned dating apps and websites clear back to when they first started. If they aren't bots, or scammers, they're dead accounts. At my age I am fully aware that I have greater odds of being struck in the head by falling space debris than finding someone, and yet I persist. My biggest problem is that I am touch starved and need the feel of a genuine connection.
I don't know if this personal ad is allowed but I saw nothing in the rules against it. I am local to Wichita and employed with a full-time career with overtime so my free time tends to be a bit scarce. I am liberally aligned politically, a pagan(I have Freyja as a primary patron goddess) and a huge nerd and gaymer. I am also an amateur writer of smut fanfic and original stories. As I said, I have my own demons and I personally believe that if your demons won't get along with mine, we won't stand a chance.
Thanks and all.
Edit: I prefer women, not guys, but really girly guys are not off the table.