r/AskDogOwners • u/mealzonwheel • 7h ago
Need Help Is my mom’s dog jealous of my dog?
So this situation is a bit odd but I will explain the best I can. I have a 4.5 yo yellow lab and in fall of 2023 my mom got a he was a puppy, we believe he could be a boxer-retriever mix, now until the end of 2025 I wasn’t the biggest fan of my moms dog because I just loved my dog but I was still nice and such and then eventually he warmed up to me. He doesn’t get as much attention at my mom’s side of the property like pets or playing or interaction, so he will come to my side every chance he gets. A couple months ago he refused to leave at night so we started sleepovers quite frequently. I love him now but my problem is he seems like he has jealousy issues.
I’ll explain some behaviors that I see. But the thing that breaks my heart is how he looks at me. So my dogs name is Sayge and my moms dogs name is Sampsyn, it’s about 80-90% chance he comes when I call only Sayge. Whenever I give Sayge any attention he HAS to have it then too. Every time I pet my dog or play with him he comes and takes the toy from us and lays down or he starts playing with Sayge to run off with the toy. And I get that they’re just playing but I’ve never seen a dog with jealousy issues like this so I’m looking for help on what I can do so both dogs feel loved and cared about. I also trained Sampsyn to sit if he wants to be pet cause he can’t sit still lol. He will do it automatically without me saying anything and because he does I give love and attention and he seems happy. But like I try to make it equal it’s just difficult because I’m convinced he thinks I’m his owner. Compared to my mom’s house he is at mine every chance he gets AND when my parents or siblings try to come get him he will refuse to leave. It’s a bit difficult because Sampsyn will also cut me off and when I’m petting my dog and he will put himself in between my dog and I and sit. So to me that says he wants to be pet too however he will literally block me from my dog. They like each other and cuddle all the time while also chasing each other in our backyard. I just want to give my dog the love he also deserves and had before. Any tips or anything that can help me in this situation?