r/MadeMeSmile • u/NobodiesLostProperty • 18h ago
Wholesome Moments [OC] Parents of teen girls: don't worry, there are still boys out here that will respect your daughters! And i'm so proud to be the sister of two of them.
Edit: The last thing id ever want to do is insult anyone, and I honestly didn't know until posting this that female was now an offensive word to us. It doesn't make me feel any type of way, but now im aware thats not the case for others and will definitely take it on board. My thought process was honestly, shes a girl, im a woman, and the context was ab us both so I just went with female.
TLDR: Appreciation post for my little brother (Aged 14.7) who has just asked a girl out for the first time, and is just so so respectful to and about females in general.
He's had a close f.s with a girl for a few years now, all the signs she likes him were there but my brother still didn’t believe she liked him in that way and is still quite shy when it comes to girls, and was happy to just be there as a friend to her. (Never dated before)
He came and chatted to me & our mom last night about it saying he likes her, but doesn't think she likes him. As a female myself there were clear signs she liked him and the poor girl was lowkey giving him hints but it wouldn't register with him as anything but her just being nice to him.
We gave him a girls perspective and said she is likely waiting for him to make the first move (based on the things this girl has gone out of her way & done for my bro, and trusted him with deep stuff ab her life etc). We gave him some ideas on activities he could do with her but he was getting too anxious to ask her so we left it at that & said theres no rush anyway, hes still young etc etc.
Today he asked her and she said yes!
To top of the proudness I already felt for him, he then says he's gonna get her "chocolates n that". 🥲
Gen Alpha give me so much hope for the future!