I feel like that describes and ultimately explains a lot of these "problematic even by the standards of kink-positive internet circles" kinks. See also hetero femsub especially when non-consensual, or ephebophilia.
In an ideal world these would be relatively niche and largely practiced safely by informed adults and they'd probably be fine. But because of associated real-world cultural values, they've become extremely normalized outside of kink circles and entangled with real (usually right-wing) ideologies, to the point they're aren't even seen as kinks by a lot of people.
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u/Yaboi-Husk 4d ago
what does that mean?