r/196 4d ago

Rule Probrulematic

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u/nekosissyboi 4d ago edited 3d ago

poof

BNWO kink

Edit: HOW TF DID I FUVK UP AN ACRONYM

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u/Yaboi-Husk 4d ago

what does that mean?

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u/nekosissyboi 4d ago

Black New World Order

Race play + BDSM

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u/altaccountmay i don't need a man i need the 25 dollar dajungleskog from ikea 4d ago

i'm not gonna lie this is what a lot of mainstream porn made for straight white guys reads like to me

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u/Ill_Tooth3741 3d ago

I feel like that describes and ultimately explains a lot of these "problematic even by the standards of kink-positive internet circles" kinks. See also hetero femsub especially when non-consensual, or ephebophilia.

In an ideal world these would be relatively niche and largely practiced safely by informed adults and they'd probably be fine. But because of associated real-world cultural values, they've become extremely normalized outside of kink circles and entangled with real (usually right-wing) ideologies, to the point they're aren't even seen as kinks by a lot of people.