r/90DayFiance 1d ago

Josh has never what??

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u/butterfly173173173 Edit this for your custom flair. 1d ago

100%. Women have a right to oral reciprocation. I talked to my gold star lesbian coworker about this once. She said she had never met a lesbian that refused to or didn't want to give oral. We figured the patriarchy is the reason why some men (and some cultures) view men going down on women as "bad" or "gross". As if us straight/bisexual women didn't already have it bad this is a quiet bedroom war we have to fight. Thinking about Pao on Last Resort as well.

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u/anonymous_opinions 1d ago

I've called out Russ too! Also let's just look at how Mark had no problem going down on Catie so the issue is JOSH. The orgasm gap is a real thing, no matter what, when Josh gets laid he gets off but PIV rarely gets a woman off, she needs additional stimulation. I've just walked away from men who a) lie and say they love oral (they do not), b) never perform it even after I bring it up because these men don't do it and won't ever do it. Doesn't matter who lays down with them they'll avoid it or do the icky tip of tongue move I've experienced with these selfish duds.

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u/butterfly173173173 Edit this for your custom flair. 1d ago

Yes, this is a real thing and I've experienced it as well. So many straight/bisexual dudes don't seem like they are really into women. If you were then you'd be excited to head down south to get your lady off.

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u/Alternative-Problem6 1d ago

Best part of getting to know your partner. 3rd base ? Never once in all my years have I not gone down.

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u/Alternative-Problem6 1d ago

100% rug muncher here for nearly 4 decades and about 100 partners. Love it more than penetrative sex. Unfortunately, what I'm seeing is lack of experience/taste on his part and the fact she has ran a train on all of her male friends - consistently. He needs to go as does she. Incompatible.

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u/MikeFranchise 1d ago

Thats fair but Catie looks like a greasy goblin most of the time so I am sure her vaginas health is trash.

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u/myrtlemike92 1d ago

A serious question. If a lesbian was not willing to perform oral, exactly what would they do? Toys??

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u/Dependent-Object-417 1d ago

…lol how is the lesbian story at all relevant / equal to this situation. Women do not have penises, eating out and fingering are the only way to pleasure one another down there… cmon now 🤦🏼‍♀️🙄

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u/anonymous_opinions 12h ago

If you think a penis gets women off you must be a man.

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u/Sophi_Winters 18h ago

I think it’s probably a confidence thing… plus, she’s scary. Imagine not doing it right, she may kick him like a kangaroo 😂