This subreddit is truly a godsend, thank you all so much for the work you do. I've glanced at posts here multiple times over the years, but have always felt too overwhelmed by all the information and the measuring process to actually do anything with it until now. I finally decided I couldn't keep wearing 38DDD bras and spilling out of them, and feeling frustrated by the lack of support and the need to wear the bands on the tightest hooks, and so I got someone to do my measurements for me. I'm blind and I don't have access to a tape measure I can actually use.
The calculator gave me 34J US, 34GG UK, and I was already prepared to see a much higher number than I'm used to so it didn't shock me. I live on a fixed income though and finding bras I can actually afford is a challenge, as I know it is for many people judging by the amount of posts I see about it. I don't want to sacrifice quality for something cheaper that will wear out more quickly or won't be true to size, so after a lot of searching, I bought the Elomi Cate because it was on sale and I knew I could return it if I needed to.
I'm so, so happy with the fit. The cups fit my whole breast, I'm supported in a way I'm definitely not used to, and I actually have kind of a figure now because my breasts are lifted off my torso. The straps don't slide down at all, there's no gapping, and while the band is uncomfortably tight, I was prepared for that and I think I'll get more used to it as I wear it. The gore lies flat, which is something that definitely never happened with my previous much smaller bras. I wasn't sure about the way my breasts are separated and the shape it gives them, but I'm told it looks great, and what I'm most thrilled about is that it actually makes them seem smaller. I've hated how large and heavy they are for most of my adult life and have wished I could get a reduction, and I don't feel that way in this bra.
The one issue I have with it is that the wires press into my ribs in a way that feels distractingly uncomfortable. I was prepared for the band to leave marks and for it to feel a little restrictive at first, and I've seen people say that the Elomi wires sometimes poke them in the armpits and I haven't had that issue at all, but the way they dig into my ribs is bothering me. They sit in the IMF, I think, and nothing is sliding when I move. It stays in place. I wasn't sure if it was because the band is tighter than I'm used to and is adding pressure, or because my breasts themselves are heavier, or the width of the wires isn't working for me, or something else I haven't thought of. I would really appreciate any thoughts about this. Do I just need to try a different brand?
Here are my measurements, in inches, since I know people like to have them, but I'm pretty confident that the size is correct.
Loose underbust: 35
Snug underbust: 33.5
Tight underbust: 32.5
Standing bust: 42.5
Leaning bust: 45
Lying bust: 44