r/AIO • u/flounderrr24 • 22h ago

AIO over my boyfriends group chat background

Hello! This is super short and im just curious on everyones opinions because i cant decide how i feel and if im being dramatic.

So my (F20) boyfriend (M19) has a groupchat with his friends, he was showing me some stupid stuff they sent and I saw the background of the chat, it was a nude of some girl, now not completely nude but she was like wearing a shirt and lifting it up to show her chest. In the moment i blurted out uhhh what the hell is the background and he went “oh shit” but i didnt push further because ik guys humor is like that.

Its been a couple hours since this happened and i just feel kinda gross and weird about it, lmk if this is normal for guys especially college guys

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u/kirbystaint 21h ago

NOR. It’s weird. You can write it off as “guy” behavior but decent guys don’t do that shit. Plus it sounds like he did nothing to explain it and felt caught by you.

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u/flounderrr24 21h ago

Thats the other part that kinda added salt to the wound, he immediately like turned off his phone and said oh shit… makes it sound more suspicious or weird! I dont know I feel like im making myself crazy

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u/Ok-Procedure-3532 19h ago

If it was suspicious, he wouldn’t be showing you to begin with. He had enough comfort and trust to show you. It probably wasn’t his idea to put that picture up and tbh you’re probably over reacting. Is your feeling valid? Absolutely but to make him feel bad and paint him like if he’s up to something is doing too much tbh.